{"id":98115,"date":"2023-08-15T09:27:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-15T07:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=98115"},"modified":"2023-08-29T13:24:26","modified_gmt":"2023-08-29T11:24:26","slug":"nebud-p-ca-tomas-moravek-rozhovor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/magazin-luxor\/nebud-p-ca-tomas-moravek-rozhovor\/","title":{"rendered":"Nebu\u010f p*\u010da! Rozhovor s autorem Tom\u00e1\u0161em Mor\u00e1vkem"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Vychovatel a krizov\u00fd intervent Tom\u00e1\u0161 Mor\u00e1vek u\u017e p\u0159i pr\u00e1ci s d\u011btmi vid\u011bl a za\u017eil mnoh\u00e9. A o tom te\u010f vypr\u00e1v\u00ed v knize, kter\u00e1 p\u0159it\u00e1hne pohledy \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f u\u017e jen sv\u00fdm n\u00e1zvem: Nebu\u010f p*\u010da<\/em>. Skute\u010dn\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy d\u011bt\u00ed, se kter\u00fdmi se ve sv\u00e9 praxi setkal, zde l\u00ed\u010d\u00ed otev\u0159en\u011b a bez p\u0159\u00edkras. P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si kr\u00e1tk\u00fd rozhovor, kter\u00fd poskytl Magaz\u00ednu LUXOR. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vystudoval jste herectv\u00ed, ale ke speci\u00e1ln\u00ed pedagogice jste pr\u00fd v\u017edycky inklinoval. M\u016f\u017eete n\u00e1m p\u0159ipomenout p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh V\u00e1s a hol\u010di\u010dky, kterou jste kdysi potkal, a d\u00edky kter\u00e9 va\u0161e cesta po \u00fastavech pro d\u011bti za\u010dala?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Toho \u010dasu jsem se \u017eivil herectv\u00edm a moderov\u00e1n\u00edm. S kolegy jsme po\u0159\u00e1dali divadeln\u00ed festival pro d\u011bti, nejen ze \u0161koly a \u0161kolek, ale tak\u00e9 z d\u011btsk\u00fdch domov\u016f, Klok\u00e1nk\u016f a dal\u0161\u00edch \u00fastavn\u00edch za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed. Najednou p\u0159i\u0161la mal\u00e1 hol\u010di\u010dka nal\u00ed\u010den\u00e1 jako up\u00edrka a poprosila m\u011b, zda bych ji odvedl na z\u00e1chod, proto\u017ee se b\u00e1la j\u00edt sama. Tak jsem ji tam odvedl a \u010dekal, dokud se nevr\u00e1t\u00ed. A od t\u00e9 doby byla u ka\u017ed\u00e9 m\u00e9 hry i mal\u00e1 up\u00edrka. Na konci festivalu mi pod\u011bkovala a zeptala se, jestli p\u0159ijedu za n\u00ed do Klok\u00e1nku. Naj\u00edt spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed nebylo snadn\u00e9, ale nakonec jsem ji na\u0161el. Byl jsem se v tom za\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed jednou pod\u00edvat a pro r\u016fzn\u00e9 ud\u00e1losti, kter\u00e9 se tam semlely, jsem se rozhodl zasv\u011btit sv\u016fj \u017eivot ochran\u011b ohro\u017een\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. U\u017e je to \u0159ada let a dodnes jsme s v kontaktu \u2013 ob\u010das si p\u00ed\u0161eme dopisy, ob\u010das si vol\u00e1me, n\u011bkdy se dokonce v\u00edd\u00e1me na akc\u00edch, kter\u00e9 pro d\u011bti s organizac\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1me. U\u017e nen\u00ed mal\u00e1 a u\u017e nen\u00ed ani bezbrann\u00e1. Je to velk\u00e1, t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 dosp\u011bl\u00e1, \u017eena, kter\u00e1 pije krev maxim\u00e1ln\u011b obrazn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Va\u0161e kn\u00ed\u017eka je o tom, jak (ne)pracovat s d\u011btmi, p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed re\u00e1ln\u00e9, ne v\u017edycky pro dosp\u011bl\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edzniv\u011b vyzn\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy z \u00fastavn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de. Je n\u011bjak\u00fd, kter\u00fd V\u00e1s zvedl ze \u017eidle \u00fapln\u011b nejv\u00edc?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh ka\u017ed\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte je specifick\u00fd, siln\u00fd a mnohdy a\u017e neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b bolestiv\u00fd. A d\u00e1t n\u011bjak\u00e9mu n\u00e1lepku, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b tenhle \u201ebyl ten nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed\u201c, zkr\u00e1tka nejde. Proto\u017ee pro ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je pr\u00e1v\u011b jeho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh ten nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a nejbolestiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. A mou prac\u00ed je b\u00fdt v tom s nimi \u2013 s ka\u017ed\u00fdm zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165. Nehodnot\u00edm a neporovn\u00e1v\u00e1m to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Co \u010dek\u00e1te, \u017ee kniha p\u0159inese do ve\u0159ejn\u00e9ho prostoru?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy t\u011bchto d\u011bt\u00ed nikdo do sv\u011bta nek\u0159i\u010del. Jen\u017ee i na t\u011bchto d\u011btech z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed a jejich \u017eivotn\u00ed osudy by nem\u011bly upadnout v zapomn\u011bn\u00ed jen proto, \u017ee se jejich p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy \u0161patn\u011b poslouchaj\u00ed nebo \u010dtou. Jsou toti\u017e zdrojem motivace, pou\u010den\u00ed a nad\u011bje. M\u016f\u017eou nav\u00e9st k zamy\u0161len\u00ed, co by se dalo d\u011blat jinak, t\u0159eba p\u0159i v\u00fdchov\u011b vlastn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed. A tak\u00e9 je moje kniha vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00edm obrovsk\u00e9ho obdivu. Nejen v\u0161em slu\u0161n\u00fdm l\u00e1skypln\u00fdm vychovatel\u016fm\/vychovatelk\u00e1m, ale p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm d\u011btem. Jsou toti\u017e \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9! P\u0159edstavte si, \u017ee v\u00e1m naprosto ka\u017ed\u00fd dosp\u011bl\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00e9ho potk\u00e1te, ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed, zn\u00e1siln\u00ed, zml\u00e1t\u00ed, zamkne ve sklep\u011b bez j\u00eddla, sl\u00edb\u00ed, \u017ee u\u017e to neud\u011bl\u00e1 a pak to ud\u011bl\u00e1 znova. A pak to znova sl\u00edb\u00ed a pak v\u00e1m znova ubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a znova a znova. A vy tak \u017eijete ve sv\u011bt\u011b, kde v\u00e1m dosp\u011bl\u00ed lid\u00e9 slibuj\u00ed, nepln\u00ed a ubli\u017euj\u00ed. Najednou se dostanete do nov\u00e9ho \u201edomova\u201c a tam jsou dal\u0161\u00ed dosp\u011bl\u00ed a ti v\u00e1m op\u011bt sl\u00edb\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00e1m neubl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a \u017ee jim m\u00e1te v\u011b\u0159it. J\u00e1 ani Vy bychom si je k t\u011blu nepustili, ale na\u0161e d\u011bti to dok\u00e1\u017eou. Navzdory tomu, kolik bolesti jim dosp\u011bl\u00ed lid\u00e9 zp\u016fsobili, stejn\u011b n\u00e1m dok\u00e1\u017eou znova za\u010d\u00edt v\u011b\u0159it, znova se n\u00e1m oddat a doufat, \u017ee tentokr\u00e1t to bude jin\u00e9. Na\u0161e d\u011bti mohou opravdu b\u00fdt v\u00fdborn\u00fdm zdrojem motivace, jak p\u0159ekonat t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 obdob\u00ed, postavit se na nohy a j\u00edt d\u00e1l. Kdysi jsem si myslel, \u017ee jsem na dn\u011b. Pak jsem se v\u017eil do k\u016f\u017ee n\u011bjak\u00e9ho z na\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed a zjistil, \u017ee dno by bylo vlastn\u011b je\u0161t\u011b dobr\u00e9. Ony neza\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed na dn\u011b \u2013 nejd\u0159\u00edve je dno, pak 10 metr\u016f hoven, st\u0159ep\u016f a bolesti a a\u017e pak jejich v\u00fdchoz\u00ed pozice. A stejn\u011b to zvl\u00e1daj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Co podle V\u00e1s ohro\u017een\u00e9 d\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed, jak\u00e9 zm\u011bny byste si pro n\u011b p\u0159\u00e1l?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00edce empatie a pochopen\u00ed n\u00e1s dosp\u011bl\u00fdch (pochopen\u00ed nen\u00ed zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 litov\u00e1n\u00ed!). V\u00edce odbornosti a d\u016fslednosti n\u00e1s dosp\u011bl\u00fdch. R\u016fzn\u00e9 legislativn\u00ed \u00fapravy \u2013 rodi\u010d nen\u00ed B\u016fh, dosp\u011bl\u00fd nem\u00e1 v\u017edy pravdu, pr\u00e1va rodi\u010de na v\u00fdchovu d\u00edt\u011bte nejsou v\u00edc ne\u017e pr\u00e1va d\u00edt\u011bte na pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed, fyzick\u00e9 tresty nejsou v po\u0159\u00e1dku a dal\u0161\u00ed. A v\u00edce kysel\u00fdch \u017e\u00ed\u017ealek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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TOM\u00c1\u0160 MOR\u00c1VEK<\/strong> je krizov\u00fd intervent a vychovatel, kter\u00fd dlouhodob\u011b pracuje v n\u011bkolika \u00fastavn\u00edch za\u0159\u00edzen\u00edch. \u0158\u00edk\u00e1 o sob\u011b, \u017ee um\u00ed uva\u0159it v\u00fdbornou ku\u0159ec\u00ed \u010d\u00ednu a r\u00fd\u017ei v mikrovlnn\u00e9 troub\u011b. M\u00e1 r\u00e1d osobn\u00ed v\u00fdzvy a tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee v p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010di plat\u00ed, \u017ee kdo nen\u00ed sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed, je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed probl\u00e9mu. V sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b je \u0159editelem neziskov\u00e9
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O knize Nebu\u010f p*\u010da<\/a><\/em>
<\/strong>Toto je kniha o d\u011btech \u017eij\u00edc\u00edch v \u00fastavn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010di \u2013 o dobr\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci s nimi i o \u0161patn\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci s nimi, o jejich p\u0159\u00edb\u011bz\u00edch, o rozhodnut\u00edch dosp\u011bl\u00fdch i o mo\u017en\u00fdch lep\u0161\u00edch volb\u00e1ch. \u010cten\u00e1\u0159 zde nalezne anonymizovan\u00e9, ale re\u00e1ln\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy d\u011bt\u00ed, z\u00e1kladn\u00ed teoretick\u00e9 (odborn\u00e9) minimum i p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9 citace samotn\u00fdch d\u011btsk\u00fdch hrdin\u016f. Takov\u00e9, kter\u00e9 mohou inspirovat, anebo t\u0159eba n\u011bkomu pomohou otev\u0159\u00edt o\u010di a uv\u011bdomit si, \u017ee i ten \u201ezl\u00fd rozmazlen\u00fd spratek\u201c m\u00e1 pro sv\u00e9 \u0161patn\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u016fvody. \u017de to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt v\u00fdk\u0159ik nesouhlasu, odporu a zhnusen\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00fdmi lidmi, s nimi\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b setkalo. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Stejn\u011b tak kniha vyjad\u0159uje hlubok\u00fd obdiv a pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00ed n\u011bkter\u00fdm lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed v t\u00e9to sf\u00e9\u0159e pracuj\u00ed. Kniha je up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e1 a surov\u00e1 \u2013 pojmenov\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u011bci a situace re\u00e1ln\u00fdmi slovy s re\u00e1ln\u00fdmi pocity, nehled\u00e1 ani l\u00edbiv\u00e9 fr\u00e1ze, ani korektn\u011b p\u0159ijateln\u00e9 opisy. A p\u0159esto\u017ee je n\u00e1zev knihy vulg\u00e1rn\u00ed (a \u010dten\u00e1\u0159 po p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed n\u011bkolika str\u00e1nek brzy pochop\u00ed pro\u010d), nen\u00ed kniha nijak podb\u00edziv\u011b senza\u010dn\u00ed, ale naopak pevn\u011b zakotven\u00e1 v ter\u00e9nn\u00ed praxi i odborn\u00e9m psychologick\u00e9m, psychoterapeutick\u00e9m a pedagogick\u00e9m z\u00e1zem\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Rozhovor vy\u0161el v Magaz\u00ednu LUXOR v kv\u011btnu 2023. Jeho autorkou je B\u00e1ra Topinkov\u00e1. Foto: archiv Tom\u00e1\u0161e Mor\u00e1vka.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Vychovatel a krizov\u00fd intervent Tom\u00e1\u0161 Mor\u00e1vek u\u017e p\u0159i pr\u00e1ci s d\u011btmi vid\u011bl a za\u017eil mnoh\u00e9. A o tom te\u010f vypr\u00e1v\u00ed v knize, kter\u00e1 p\u0159it\u00e1hne pohledy \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f u\u017e jen sv\u00fdm n\u00e1zvem: […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":172704,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[21655,8],"tags":[20715,18344],"class_list":["post-98115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-magazin-luxor","category-rozhovor","tag-magazin","tag-rozhovor"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98115"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98115\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/172704"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}