O psychick\u00fdch pot\u00ed\u017e\u00edch se v\u00a0na\u0161ich kon\u010din\u00e1ch p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nemluv\u00ed. Jasn\u011b, v\u0161ichni m\u00e1me ob\u010das \u201edepku\u201c, ale skute\u010dn\u011b nemocn\u00ed se svou diagn\u00f3zou p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nechlub\u00ed. Medikaci maskuj\u00ed za pr\u00e1\u0161ky na span\u00ed a obecn\u011b je tohle t\u00e9ma po\u0159\u00e1d tak trochu tabu. O t\u011bchto lidech bylo sice naps\u00e1no nespo\u010det knih, ale co ti, kdo p\u0159i t\u011bch t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdch chv\u00edl\u00edch stoj\u00ed p\u0159i nich? P\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00ed a p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9? Jak oni pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed chv\u00edle, kdy se jejich bl\u00edzk\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk m\u011bn\u00ed v\u00a0naprosto \u0161\u00edlenou osobu?<\/p>\n
O zasv\u011bcen\u00fd pohled se s\u00a0v\u00e1mi pod\u011blil Mark Lukach<\/b>, americk\u00fd spisovatel a u\u010ditel, kter\u00fd si t\u00edm pro\u0161el. Se svou \u017eenou se sezn\u00e1mili, kdy\u017e jim bylo sladk\u00fdch osmn\u00e1ct, cel\u00fd sv\u011bt jim le\u017eel u nohou (nebo si to aspo\u0148 mysleli) a na r\u016f\u017eov\u00fdch k\u0159\u00eddlech vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky v\u011b\u0159ili, \u017ee je nerozd\u011bl\u00ed nikdo a nic. A tak s\u00a0d\u016fv\u011brou v sebe sam\u00e9 a sv\u016fj vztah vstoupili do dosp\u011bl\u00e9ho \u017eivota pln\u00e9ho b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00fdch vyhl\u00eddek. <\/p>\n
Idylka ov\u0161em netrvala dlouho, Giulii zachv\u00e1tila prvn\u00ed psychotick\u00e1 ataka a skon\u010dila v\u00a0nemocnici. \u0160ok, zmatek, \u017eivot vzh\u016fru nohama a bolest. Asi tak by se daly popsat prvotn\u00ed reakce Marka, kdy\u017e vid\u011bl jak jeho milovanou \u017eenu odv\u00e1d\u00ed pracovn\u00edci psychiatrick\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010debny za sklen\u011bn\u00e9 dve\u0159e a n\u00e1sil\u00edm j\u00ed aplikuj\u00ed l\u00e9ky. A to byl teprve za\u010d\u00e1tek dlouh\u00e9 cesty. N\u00e1sledoval n\u00e1vrat dom\u016f, Giuliiny sebevra\u017eedn\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, snaha o \u201enorm\u00e1ln\u00ed\u201c \u017eivot, a pak tak\u00e9 relaps, l\u00e9ky a op\u011btovn\u00e1\u00a0 terapie. Chvilkov\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed jim p\u0159ineslo narozen\u00ed syna Jonase a nad vodou je dr\u017eela vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska. <\/p>\n
M\u00e1 p\u016fvabn\u00e1 \u017eena v\u00a0bl\u00e1zinci<\/b> je hlubokou a niternou v\u00fdpov\u011bd\u00ed mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd s\u00a0neuv\u011b\u0159itelnou oddanost\u00ed a trp\u011blivost\u00ed pe\u010duje o svou milovanou man\u017eelku. Kniha je ps\u00e1na autobiograficky a odr\u00e1\u017e\u00ed realitu psychick\u00e9ho onemocn\u011bn\u00ed bez p\u0159\u00edkras a iluz\u00ed. Nejde jen o nemoc samotnou a vyrovn\u00e1n\u00ed se s\u00a0n\u00ed, ale i o jeho pohled na v\u011bc. Po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e1 d\u00e1vka pochyb a beznad\u011bje toti\u017e nutn\u011b ovlivn\u00ed jeho vlastn\u00ed j\u00e1. Bez obalu popisuje sv\u00e9 zoufalstv\u00ed a touhu to v\u0161echno vzd\u00e1t. A tak\u00e9 zlost, kterou v\u00a0hloubi du\u0161e poci\u0165uje a nutkav\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed vypadnout z\u00a0toho p\u0159\u00ed\u0161ern\u00e9ho pekla a \u017e\u00edt \u017eivot p\u0159esn\u011b tak, jak si na po\u010d\u00e1tku jejich vztahu vysnili.<\/p>\n
Markova v\u00fdpov\u011b\u010f je neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b dojemn\u00e1 a po do\u010dten\u00ed si s\u00a0jist\u00fdm smutkem v\u00a0srdci uv\u011bdom\u00edte, \u017ee to, co Mark zvl\u00e1dl, vy byste mo\u017en\u00e1 neust\u00e1li. Autorovi rozhodn\u011b pat\u0159\u00ed hlubok\u00fd obdiv. Ani ne tak za jeho spisovatelsk\u00e9 kvality, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e za up\u0159\u00edmnost a ob\u011bti, kter\u00e9 polo\u017eil na olt\u00e1\u0159 nemoci sv\u00e9 \u017eeny ve snaze dos\u00e1hnout jej\u00edho uzdraven\u00ed. <\/p>\n
Navzdory t\u00ed\u017eiv\u00e9mu t\u00e9matu je kniha poutav\u00e1 a neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b \u010dtiv\u00e1. Autor se na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed vyvaroval odborn\u00fdch popis\u016f a vypr\u00e1v\u00ed vlastn\u011b jen o relativn\u011b oby\u010dejn\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b jednoho p\u00e1ru, kter\u00fdch je mezi n\u00e1mi jist\u011b mnoho. Ale i tak se mu poda\u0159ilo mezi \u0159\u00e1dky vm\u00edsit takovou d\u00e1vku emoc\u00ed, \u017ee to s\u00a0v\u00e1mi po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b zam\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n
M\u00e1 p\u016fvabn\u00e1 \u017eena v\u00a0bl\u00e1zinci<\/b> je i p\u0159es nev\u00fdraznou ob\u00e1lku kniha, kterou stoj\u00ed za to si p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst. U\u017e jen proto, abyste pochopili, \u017ee ta prav\u00e1 l\u00e1ska se neskr\u00fdv\u00e1 ve ve\u010de\u0159i p\u0159i sv\u00ed\u010dk\u00e1ch a ve slovech milostn\u00e9ho vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed, ale v\u00a0s\u00edle, kter\u00e1 spojuje dva lidi a kter\u00e1 dok\u00e1\u017ee bojovat i s\u00a0tou nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed nep\u0159\u00edzn\u00ed osudu.<\/p>\n
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Monika Hr\u0148ov\u00e1<\/p>\n
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Giulia a Mark byli p\u00e1r sn\u016f. A pak se n\u011bco o\u0161kliv\u011b pokazilo a Giulia skon\u010dila na psychiatrii. M\u00e1 p\u016fvabn\u00e1 \u017eena v bl\u00e1zinci je hluboce up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e1 zpov\u011b\u010f jej\u00edho mu\u017ee, kter\u00e1 omr\u00e1\u010d\u00ed va\u0161e city a zlom\u00ed v\u00e1m srdce.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":4523,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recenze"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4522"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4522\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4523"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}