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Vlastino, jak jste se dostala k\u00a0psan\u00ed knih? Byla to v\u017edy n\u011bjak\u00e1 \u017eivotn\u00ed situace, nahromad\u011bn\u00ed zku\u0161enost\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jste pot\u0159ebovala p\u0159en\u00e9st a ventilovat ven? Pro\u010d pr\u00e1v\u011b psan\u00edm?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Ka\u017ed\u00e1 du\u0161e inklinuje k n\u011b\u010demu, u \u010deho se c\u00edt\u00ed \u201edoma\u201c, raduje se a je j\u00ed to p\u0159irozen\u00e9. Moje du\u0161e nejrad\u011bji p\u00ed\u0161e \u2013 mnohem rad\u011bji, ne\u017e mluv\u00ed. Proto skoro netelefonuju, ale zato jsem expert na psan\u00ed email\u016f, dopis\u016f a vzkaz\u016f. Psala jsem u\u017e od d\u011btstv\u00ed, p\u0159ivedla m\u011b k tomu m\u00e1 dnes u\u017e devades\u00e1tilet\u00e1 babi\u010dka. Psala jsem poezii, od puberty pravideln\u011b den\u00edk. Psala jsem fejetony, pak blogy. N\u00e1pad vydat z blog\u016f kn\u00ed\u017eku p\u0159i\u0161el od m\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1tel. Jedna kamar\u00e1dka mi \u0159ekla: \u201ePro\u010d to nenap\u00ed\u0161e\u0161 do kn\u00ed\u017eky? Kdy\u017e p\u0159ijdu ve\u010der unaven\u00e1 z pr\u00e1ce, nechce se mi \u010d\u00edst nic, nad \u010d\u00edm mus\u00edm p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let.\u201c Je pravda, \u017ee nad m\u00fdmi kn\u00ed\u017ekami se nemus\u00ed p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let (sm\u00edch).<\/i><\/p>\n
Jak\u00e9 to je b\u00fdt vzorem, \u017eenskou ikonou, ale n\u011bkdy i \u00fat\u011bchou pro \u017eeny se stejn\u00fdm \u017eivotn\u00edm osudem?<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n
Zodpov\u011bdn\u00e9. Intenzivn\u011b jsem si to uv\u011bdomila a\u017e po odvys\u00edl\u00e1n\u00ed m\u00e9 13. komnaty, kdy mi p\u0159i\u0161lo tolik n\u00e1dhern\u00fdch vzkaz\u016f a pod\u011bkov\u00e1n\u00ed. Tolik \u017een psalo, \u017ee pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed to sam\u00e9, \u017ee maj\u00ed stejn\u00fd osud. Dokonce tolik mu\u017e\u016f, \u017ee maj\u00ed takovou \u017eenu doma. Poc\u00edtila jsem, \u017ee to m\u011blo smysl, i kdy\u017e jsem n\u011bkolik let tuto nab\u00eddku odm\u00edtala. Nebyla jsem p\u0159ipravena. Je\u0161t\u011b nebyl ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd \u010das. A\u017e te\u010f jsem schopna naslouchat, pom\u00e1hat, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 \u0159\u00edct ne, u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eu \u2013 a vr\u00e1tit se zp\u00e1tky do sv\u00e9 ulity, kde m\u016f\u017eu odpo\u010d\u00edvat. Nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee jsem vzorem, to sp\u00ed\u0161e mo\u017en\u00e1 inspirac\u00ed. M\u00fdm c\u00edlem je uk\u00e1zat, \u017ee je v po\u0159\u00e1dku tr\u00e1pit se, \u017ee je v po\u0159\u00e1dku b\u00fdt na dn\u011b, \u017ee je v po\u0159\u00e1dku odej\u00edt, kdy\u017e u\u017e nem\u016f\u017eeme, \u017ee je v po\u0159\u00e1dku b\u00fdt nedokonal\u00e1 a kr\u00e1sn\u00e1, takov\u00e1, jak\u00e1 jsem. U\u017e jsem unaven\u00e1 z toho tlaku v m\u00e9di\u00edch a na soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00edch, jak m\u00e1me vypadat, jak se m\u00e1me sedrat z k\u016f\u017ee kv\u016fli pek\u00e1\u010di buchet a jakou velikost oble\u010den\u00ed m\u00e1me nosit, aby n\u00e1s tato spole\u010dnost pova\u017eovala za \u201ecool\u201c, trendy a \u201ein\u201c.<\/p>\n
T\u00e9mata, kter\u00fdm jste se v\u011bnovala, byla rozvod, anorexie, \u017eena samo\u017eivitelka\u2026 J\u00e1 osobn\u011b jsem v\u00a0knize <\/i>Sama sebou\u00a0nalezla velkou s\u00edlu a dodnes ji pro sebe pova\u017euji za zlomovou. Jen proto, \u017ee jste se neb\u00e1la mluvit nahlas. Berete to jako posl\u00e1n\u00ed?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Dlouho, velmi dlouho jsem hledala smysl toho, co tady \u017eiju. \u010c\u00edm m\u016f\u017eu p\u0159isp\u011bt. Doufala jsem, \u017ee alespo\u0148 n\u011b\u010d\u00edm. Ve dvaceti jsem ale ten smysl hledala v jin\u00fdch hodnot\u00e1ch. T\u0159eba, kdy\u017e vyhraju n\u011bjakou velkou filmovou cenu, lid\u00e9 si m\u011b budou v\u00e1\u017eit a j\u00e1 pak kone\u010dn\u011b budu m\u00edt uzn\u00e1n\u00ed a m\u016f\u017eu pom\u00e1hat. To byla \u0161patn\u00e1 cesta. Proto\u017ee to se nikdy nemus\u00ed st\u00e1t a j\u00e1 budu po\u0159\u00e1d na n\u011bco \u010dekat. A tak jsem p\u0159estala cht\u00edt n\u011bco konkr\u00e9tn\u00edho, p\u0159estala jsem si ur\u010dovat, co mus\u00edm dostat, abych pak byla spokojen\u00e1 a \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1, a nechala v\u0161e plynout sv\u00fdm tempem, bez o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. I kdy\u017e, abych byla up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e1, ne v\u017edy se mi to da\u0159\u00ed a m\u016f\u017eu vztekem prasknout, \u017ee nem\u00e1m hned to, co chci! Ka\u017edop\u00e1dn\u011b si za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1m postupn\u011b myslet, \u017ee posl\u00e1n\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt \u201ened\u011blat nic\u201c. Jenom b\u00fdt v tom nejlep\u0161\u00edm, co v n\u00e1s je. Neubli\u017eovat, nez\u00e1vid\u011bt, odpou\u0161t\u011bt, milovat\u2026<\/p>\n
Knihy jste vydala zat\u00edm dv\u011b <\/i>Modr\u00fd slon\u00a0a <\/i>Sama sebou, m\u016f\u017eeme se t\u011b\u0161it na t\u0159et\u00ed?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Zrovna p\u0159ed t\u00fddnem jsem dostala nab\u00eddku na vyd\u00e1n\u00ed kn\u00ed\u017eky. V prvn\u00ed moment m\u011b napadlo, \u017ee je to nab\u00eddka sn\u016f. A t\u0159eba taky je. Ale nechci ps\u00e1t pod tlakem, s ultim\u00e1tem do konce roku, proto\u017ee u m\u011b psan\u00ed funguje v moment\u011b, kdy ps\u00e1t nemus\u00edm, kdy jsem sama sob\u011b p\u00e1nem. Kdy naslouch\u00e1m sama sob\u011b a c\u00edt\u00edm, \u017ee bych t\u0159eba te\u010f mohla napsat n\u011bco smyslupln\u00e9ho. Nest\u00e1v\u00e1 se to \u010dasto. Ale ano, v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee t\u0159et\u00ed kn\u00ed\u017eka bude. A brzy\u2026 n\u00e1zev u\u017e toti\u017e m\u00e1m.<\/p>\n
Kter\u00e9 knihy ovlivnily v\u00e1s? A ke kter\u00fdm se r\u00e1da vrac\u00edte?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
V ka\u017ed\u00e9m v\u011bku a \u017eivotn\u00ed etap\u011b jin\u00e1. Ale kdy\u017e budu mluvit o dosp\u011blosti, na spr\u00e1vnou cestu a m\u016fj \u017eivot zm\u011bnila kn\u00ed\u017eka \u010cty\u0159i dohody<\/a>. Pak jsem hodn\u011b \u010detla o karm\u011b, du\u0161i, v\u0161e od Carla Junga. N\u011bkolik let mi pom\u00e1hala kn\u00ed\u017eka N\u00e1vrat k l\u00e1sce<\/a>\u00a0<\/i>od Marianne Williamson. Pomohla mi Cesta<\/a> od Brandon Bays. Ide\u00e1ln\u00ed by bylo, kdybyste se mohla p\u0159ij\u00edt pod\u00edvat na mou knihovnu. Je to moje jedin\u00e9 Curriculum vitae.<\/p>\n Jste maminkou t\u0159\u00ed syn\u016f, \u010dtete jim? A pova\u017eujete to za d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9? Neuva\u017eovala jste n\u011bkdy o naps\u00e1n\u00ed poh\u00e1dkov\u00e9 knihy?<\/b><\/i>\u00a0<\/p>\n M\u00e1m ji rozepsanou. Dokonce spole\u010dn\u011b se star\u0161\u00edm synem. J\u00e1 napsala prvn\u00ed str\u00e1nku, druhou on, a tak bychom se m\u011bli st\u0159\u00eddat. Ale zat\u00edm je to v za\u010d\u00e1tc\u00edch, s novorozencem jsem r\u00e1da, \u017ee si dojdu na z\u00e1chod a str\u010d\u00edm do pusy n\u011bjak\u00e9 j\u00eddlo. D\u011btem jsem v\u017edy \u010detla. Dnes u\u017e si nejstar\u0161\u00ed syn \u010dte o youtuberech, tam u\u017e se nepotk\u00e1v\u00e1me. Te\u010f se op\u011bt vr\u00e1t\u00edm ke klasice u nejmlad\u0161\u00edho. A budu si to u\u017e\u00edvat.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Autor: Jana Br\u00e1zdilov\u00e1<\/i><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" D\u0159\u00edve ne\u017e jsem zaznamenala, \u017ee tato charismatick\u00e1 \u017eena je uzn\u00e1vanou \u010deskou here\u010dkou, m\u011bla jsem mo\u017enost ji poznat mezi \u0159\u00e1dky. M\u00e1lokdo v\u00ed, \u017ee Vlastina Sv\u00e1tkov\u00e1 vydala dv\u011b knihy, kter\u00e9 zachycuj\u00ed pohled na sv\u011bt citliv\u00e9, vn\u00edmav\u00e9 a inteligentn\u00ed \u017eeny, je\u017e za\u017eila vzestup i p\u00e1d. Sv\u00fdmi knihami d\u00e1v\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f na to, kde a jak hledat nad\u011bji a v\u00fdchodisko ve slo\u017eit\u00fdch situac\u00edch, ale i velkou m\u00edru pohlazen\u00ed a nadhledu, proto\u017ee v\u0161e se d\u00e1 p\u0159ekonat \u2013 a t\u00edm hlavn\u00edm pr\u016fvodcem jej\u00ed tvorby je pr\u00e1v\u011b l\u00e1ska.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3814,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rozhovor"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3813","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3813"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3813\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3814"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3813"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3813"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3813"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}