{"id":332931,"date":"2026-06-02T16:35:43","date_gmt":"2026-06-02T14:35:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=332931"},"modified":"2026-06-02T16:37:22","modified_gmt":"2026-06-02T14:37:22","slug":"dorota-ambrozova-rozhovor-nahacci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/magazin-luxor\/dorota-ambrozova-rozhovor-nahacci\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201eMate\u0159stv\u00ed m\u011b prom\u011b\u0148uje.\u201c Rozhovor s\u00a0Dorotou Ambro\u017eovou"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u201eNa\u0161e spole\u010dnost d\u011bti chce, ale do doby, ne\u017e dorostou, je odkl\u00edz\u00edme stranou,\u201c \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 spisovatelka Dorota Ambro\u017eov\u00e1. Po \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9m debutu p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed s novou knihou Nah\u00e1\u010dci,<\/em> ve kter\u00e9 zpracov\u00e1v\u00e1 vy\u010derp\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed zku\u0161enost s insomni\u00ed a ran\u00fdm mate\u0159stv\u00edm. V rozhovoru pro Magaz\u00edn LUXOR up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b popsala ztr\u00e1tu profesn\u00ed jistoty i nere\u00e1ln\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e1 spole\u010dnost na matky klade. Pro\u010d d\u011bti zbyte\u010dn\u011b separujeme od sv\u011bta dosp\u011bl\u00fdch? A pro\u010d by m\u011bla m\u00edt mate\u0159sk\u00e1 dovolen\u00e1 stejnou presti\u017e jako veden\u00ed \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e9 firmy?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Jste matkou mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, \u010deho si na t\u00e9to \u017eivotn\u00ed etap\u011b cen\u00edte nejv\u00edc? A co v\u00e1m na n\u00ed p\u0159ijde nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Cen\u00edm si toho, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eu prov\u00e1zet \u017eivotem dv\u011b mal\u00e9 bytosti, sledovat, jak se formuje jejich autonomie, jak rostou a dosp\u00edvaj\u00ed. Pozn\u00e1vat, v \u010dem jsme stejn\u00ed a v \u010dem zase rozd\u00edln\u00ed, a nechat se od nich inspirovat. Z praktick\u00fdch v\u011bc\u00ed si cen\u00edm t\u0159eba toho, \u017ee m\u00e9mu \u017eivotu d\u00e1vaj\u00ed \u0159\u00e1d \u2013 d\u00edky nim je m\u016fj pracovn\u00ed \u010das pevn\u011b ohrani\u010den\u00fd. V neposledn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b jsou pro m\u011b velikou motivac\u00ed, proto\u017ee v\u00edm, \u017ee nejl\u00e9pe vychov\u00e1v\u00e1me vlastn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edkladem. Je pro m\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 b\u00fdt d\u016fsledn\u00e1, proto\u017ee to nem\u00e1m v povaze, nebo t\u0159eba z\u016fstat trp\u011bliv\u00e1 a respektuj\u00edc\u00ed i ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy mi zrovna nen\u00ed dob\u0159e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee roli matky dne\u0161n\u00ed spole\u010dnost dostate\u010dn\u011b oce\u0148uje?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ne. V textu si kladu ot\u00e1zku, jak by t\u011b\u017ekosti mate\u0159stv\u00ed prom\u011bnilo, kdyby status matky na mate\u0159sk\u00e9 dovolen\u00e9 po\u017e\u00edval stejn\u00e9 presti\u017ee jako t\u0159eba CEO n\u011bjak\u00e9ho sympatick\u00e9ho byznysu.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Mate\u0159sk\u00e1 pro m\u011b byla hrozn\u011b ambivalentn\u00ed. Na jednu stranu jsem opravdu hodn\u011b vyrostla osobnostn\u011b po n\u011bjak\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 str\u00e1nce, ale na druhou stranu jsem kompletn\u011b ztratila profesn\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed. Cel\u00e9 to obdob\u00ed intenzivn\u00ed p\u00e9\u010de je nam\u00ed\u0159en\u00e9 hodn\u011b dovnit\u0159, tak\u017ee kdy\u017e jsem potom hledala pr\u00e1ci a m\u011bla ud\u011blat ten krok ven, do sv\u011bta, bylo to utrpen\u00ed. Na\u0161e spole\u010dnost d\u011bti chce a pot\u0159ebuje, ale jejich hodnotu \u010dasto redukuje na budouc\u00ed pracovn\u00ed s\u00edlu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do doby, ne\u017e dorostou, je t\u0159\u00edd\u00edme podle v\u011bku a odkl\u00edz\u00edme stranou: nejd\u0159\u00edv dom\u016f s m\u00e1mou, pak na oplocen\u00e1 h\u0159i\u0161t\u011b, do d\u011btsk\u00fdch koutk\u016f, na d\u011btsk\u00e9 programy, do \u0161kolek a \u0161kol. Nevytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edme aktivn\u011b prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kde by p\u0159irozen\u011b vznikaly v\u011bkov\u011b sm\u00ed\u0161en\u00e9 kolektivy a kde by se prot\u00ednal sv\u011bt dosp\u011bl\u00fdch a d\u011bt\u00ed. Tahle separace je podle m\u011b \u0161patn\u011b a \u0161kod\u00ed v\u0161em.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Jak v\u00e1s mate\u0159stv\u00ed zm\u011bnilo?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Zcela z\u00e1sadn\u011b a po\u0159\u00e1d m\u011b prom\u011b\u0148uje. D\u011bti sv\u00fdm chov\u00e1n\u00edm \u010dasto upozor\u0148uj\u00ed na n\u011bco, co nem\u00e1me tak \u00fapln\u011b dob\u0159e zvl\u00e1dnut\u00e9. Tak\u017ee kdy\u017e m\u011b n\u011b\u010d\u00edm irituj\u00ed, mus\u00edm j\u00edt do sebe.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Existuj\u00ed m\u00fdty o mate\u0159stv\u00ed, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1s osobn\u011b \u0161tvou? Dostalo se na n\u011b tak\u00e9 v knize?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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V\u00edce ne\u017e m\u00fdty m\u011b \u0161tvou o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e1 jsou na matky kladeny. M\u016f\u017eeme si o nich myslet, co chceme, a p\u0159esto se n\u00e1m dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed do podv\u011bdom\u00ed, kde \u010dasto vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed pocity nedostate\u010dnosti. Svoje mate\u0159stv\u00ed bychom si m\u011bly nastavit ka\u017ed\u00e1 podle sv\u00fdch pot\u0159eb a podle pot\u0159eb na\u0161ich d\u011bt\u00ed a nikomu nep\u0159\u00edslu\u0161\u00ed to hodnotit. J\u00e1 jsem hodn\u011b svobodomysln\u00e1 a um\u00edm si v\u011bci p\u0159izp\u016fsobit, p\u0159esto za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m pocity selh\u00e1n\u00ed a pochybnost\u00ed. R\u00e1da bych vzk\u00e1zala v\u0161em \u017een\u00e1m, aby podobn\u00fdm emoc\u00edm nep\u0159ikl\u00e1daly \u017e\u00e1dnou v\u00e1hu. Nejsou to na\u0161e pocity, jsou to pocity vsugerovan\u00e9 spole\u010dnost\u00ed nebo n\u011bjak\u00fdm na\u0161\u00edm \u0161r\u00e1mem na du\u0161i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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My i d\u011bti jsme jedine\u010dn\u00e9 individuality, z podstaty v\u011bci tud\u00ed\u017e nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9, aby existovala jedin\u00e1 ide\u00e1ln\u00ed forma mate\u0159stv\u00ed.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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Podobn\u011b jako v p\u0159edchoz\u00ed knize p\u00ed\u0161ete o nitern\u00fdch a intimn\u00edch v\u011bcech. Jak na v\u00e1s p\u016fsob\u00ed ohlasy, kter\u00e9 sv\u00fdmi texty vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1te?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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P\u0159ed publikac\u00ed textu z nich m\u00e1m v\u017edycky velik\u00fd respekt, ale kdy\u017e pak za\u010dnou chodit, zji\u0161\u0165uju, \u017ee to se mnou zas tak moc ned\u011bl\u00e1. Pozitivn\u00ed pot\u011b\u0161\u00ed, negativn\u00ed zamrz\u00ed, ale oboj\u00ed dok\u00e1\u017eu rychle hodit za hlavu. Co z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 d\u00e9le, je opravdu konstruktivn\u00ed kritika, tu ale um\u00ed d\u00e1t m\u00e1lokdo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pl\u00e1nujete u\u017e n\u00e1m\u011bt dal\u0161\u00ed knihy?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Knihu graficky upravila Nikola Jan\u00ed\u010dkov\u00e1 a ilustroval Jind\u0159ich Jan\u00ed\u010dek.<\/em><\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
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Nah\u00e1\u010dci <\/em>vznikli tak tro\u0161ku n\u00e1hodou. Text jsem napsala pro rozhlas a to, \u017ee dostal kni\u017en\u00ed podobu, je z\u00e1sluha p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm redaktor\u016f Kry\u0161tofa Edera a Vojty Sta\u0148ka. Kdy\u017e jsem je psala, m\u011bla jsem u\u017e rozpracovanou jinou kn\u00ed\u017eku. Tak\u017ee ano, n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das u\u017e pracuju na dal\u0161\u00edm textu.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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DOROTA AMBRO\u017dOV\u00c1<\/strong> (* 1994) poch\u00e1z\u00ed z Olomouce. Vystudovala Rozhlasovou a televizn\u00ed dramaturgii a scen\u00e1ristiku na JAMU v Brn\u011b. Je vdan\u00e1, m\u00e1 dv\u011b d\u011bti, \u017eije a pracuje v Olomouci. Debutovala v roce 2024 rom\u00e1nem Posledn\u00ed l\u00e9to<\/a>,<\/em> kter\u00fd se dostal na longlist cen Magnesia Litera 2024 v kategorii Objev roku.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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O knize Nah\u00e1\u010dci:<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Dv\u011b mal\u00e9 d\u011bti pob\u00edhaj\u00ed po kuchyni a ka\u017edou chv\u00edli se za dve\u0159mi zjev\u00ed soused, kter\u00fd si bude st\u011b\u017eovat na hluk. A vy p\u0159itom nemysl\u00edte na nic jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e na sp\u00e1nek. Po diskutovan\u00e9 novele Posledn\u00ed l\u00e9to p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed spisovatelka Dorota Ambro\u017eov\u00e1 se zneklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00edm z\u00e1znamem obdob\u00ed, kdy trp\u011bla insomni\u00ed. V textu s n\u00e1zvem Nah\u00e1\u010dci, kter\u00fd balancuje na pomez\u00ed nekompromisn\u00ed autofikce a n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 eseje, popisuje mate\u0159skou zku\u0161enost, rodinn\u00e9 tradice a o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00e9 ve v\u00ed\u0159e i pozici \u017eeny, kter\u00e1 se hned po \u0161kole stala matkou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Rozhovor vy\u0161el v Magaz\u00ednu LUXOR v kv\u011btnu 2026.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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