{"id":331566,"date":"2024-09-17T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2024-09-16T22:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/nezarazene\/marian-jelinek-jiri-kuchar-nase-hovory-s-konfuciem\/"},"modified":"2024-09-17T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2024-09-16T22:00:00","slug":"marian-jelinek-jiri-kuchar-nase-hovory-s-konfuciem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/rozhovor\/marian-jelinek-jiri-kuchar-nase-hovory-s-konfuciem\/","title":{"rendered":"Marian Jel\u00ednek, Ji\u0159\u00ed Kucha\u0159: Na\u0161e hovory s Konfuciem"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Jak ten p\u0159&iacute;b\u011bh za\u010dal?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Mlad&yacute; mu\u017e, kter&yacute; to skoro cel&eacute; vypr&aacute;v&iacute;, se v \u010dajovn\u011b od dvou kluk\u016f z \u010cesk&yacute;ch Bud\u011bjovic dozv&iacute; o mu\u017ei, kter&eacute;ho jeden z nich potkal na kone\u010dn&eacute; dvan&aacute;ctky ve Stromovce. &bdquo;Jako by kolem va&scaron;eho stolu na zahr&aacute;dce v restauraci projela na chodn&iacute;ku z&aacute;vodn&iacute; motorka,&ldquo; popisuje sv\u016fj pocit, kdy\u017e je poslouch&aacute;, a vyprav&iacute; se tam. A skute\u010dn\u011b ho najde na lavi\u010dce, dojde k n\u011bmu a skoro okam\u017eit\u011b po prvn&iacute;m pohledu do o\u010d&iacute; p\u0159ijde ne\u010dekan&aacute; ot&aacute;zka: &bdquo;Co bys d\u011blal, kdybys byl vlada\u0159em?&ldquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Jak na to reagoval?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Nev\u011bd\u011bl co, nikdy j&iacute;m nebyl a ani si to nedovedl p\u0159edstavit. Ml\u010del. Potom p\u0159i&scaron;la druh&aacute; ot&aacute;zka: &bdquo;Dal bys nejd\u0159&iacute;v lidem naj&iacute;st, anebo bys postavil arm&aacute;du?&ldquo; &bdquo;Asi oboj&iacute;.&ldquo; &bdquo;A co prvn&iacute;, kdybys na oboj&iacute; nem\u011bl dost pen\u011bz?&ldquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Odv&eacute;st pozornost jinam je velk&eacute; um\u011bn&iacute;.<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kdy\u017e jsme v n\u011bjak&eacute; nep\u0159&iacute;jemn&eacute; situaci, p\u0159ipad&aacute;me si jako v oku cyklonu a m&aacute;me pocit, \u017ee to tak bude po\u0159&aacute;d. Vzpome\u0148te si na za\u010d&aacute;tek covidu, kdy v m\u011bs&iacute;\u010dn&iacute;ku Regenerace uklid\u0148ovali, \u017ee to jednou skon\u010d&iacute;, jinak bychom tady m\u011bli mor dosud. Hodn\u011b lid&iacute; to bralo skoro jako konec sv\u011bta a tak&eacute; se podle toho&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">chovali.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Pro\u010d mu za\u010dal \u0159&iacute;kat Konfucius?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Proto\u017ee kdy\u017e se k n\u011bmu bl&iacute;\u017eil poprv&eacute;, p\u0159ipomn\u011bl mu vzhledem toho d&aacute;vn&eacute;ho \u010d&iacute;nsk&eacute;ho mudrce. A jak ho pozn&aacute;val v&iacute;c a v&iacute;c, pochopil, \u017ee to byla dokonal&aacute; asociace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #1b3f75; font-size: 12pt;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\">S&Iacute;LA MYSLI<\/span><br \/><\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Va&scaron;e t\u0159i posledn&iacute; spole\u010dn&eacute; knihy jsou v&scaron;echny na t&eacute;ma pr&aacute;ce s mysl&iacute;. Lze to tak \u0159&iacute;ct?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Tajemstv&iacute; \u017eivotn&iacute; motivace vzniklo jako \u010dten&aacute;\u0159sk&aacute; verze na&scaron;&iacute; v&yacute;pravn&eacute; knihy Motivace &ndash; m&yacute;tus dne&scaron;n&iacute; doby. Pak p\u0159i&scaron;el covid a ten p\u0159inesl knihu Jak se zbavit strachu. Za\u010dala v&aacute;lka na Ukrajin\u011b a p\u0159inesla Um\u011bn&iacute; psychick&eacute; odolnosti.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Potom p\u0159i&scaron;lo t&eacute;ma Konfucius, kter&eacute;ho m&aacute;me oba r&aacute;di. Sch&aacute;zeli jsme se v na&scaron;&iacute; obl&iacute;ben&eacute; kav&aacute;rn\u011b a mluvili jsme o tom, jak kultivovat mysl \u010dlov\u011bka, kter&yacute; s&aacute;m sebe charakterizuje: &bdquo;V m&eacute;m \u017eivot\u011b se odehr&aacute;val z&aacute;pas, n\u011bco jako konec prvn&iacute; t\u0159etiny, zd&aacute;lo se mi, mo\u017en&aacute; druh&eacute;, nebo sp&iacute;&scaron; polo\u010dasu rozpadu.&ldquo; Ten mlad&yacute; mu\u017e se m&aacute; dob\u0159e, je materi&aacute;ln\u011b docela solidn\u011b zaji&scaron;t\u011bn&yacute;, nau\u010dil se &bdquo;chodit&ldquo; ve sv\u011bt\u011b, ve kter&eacute;m \u017eije. Jeho kolega si d\u011blal zbrojn&iacute; pr\u016fkaz a v kancel&aacute;\u0159i jim \u0159&iacute;kal &uacute;vahu, kterou m\u011bl&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">od sv&eacute;ho instruktora: Nejd\u0159&iacute;v mi\u0159 a pak teprve st\u0159&iacute;lej. Prvn&iacute; je my&scaron;lenka, po n&iacute; p\u0159ijde \u010din.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Tak je to ale v\u011bt&scaron;inou spr&aacute;vn\u011b.<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&bdquo;Pokud bychom &scaron;li do kvantov&eacute; fyziky,&ldquo; \u0159ekl mu Konfucius, &bdquo;tak by se to ani rozli&scaron;it nedalo. Proto\u017ee my&scaron;lenka je ve svoj&iacute; podstat\u011b hmotn&aacute; a hmota ve sv&eacute; podstat\u011b nehmotn&aacute;.&ldquo;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Kdy \u010din p\u0159edch&aacute;z&iacute; v na&scaron;ich \u017eivotech my&scaron;lence?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Vzpome\u0148me si t\u0159eba na svoje instinktivn&iacute; pohyby, kdy\u017e na n&aacute;s n\u011bkdo fyzicky nastoup&iacute;. Na my&scaron;lenku nen&iacute; kdy a t\u011blo vykon&aacute; ur\u010dit&yacute; pohyb, t\u0159eba zvedne ruku, kopne, nastav&iacute; hole\u0148, koleno nebo loket. Je to n\u011bco hluboko v n&aacute;s, co n&aacute;m kdysi zachr&aacute;nilo \u017eivot, kdy\u017e jsme se u\u010dili lovit. V knize o strachu jsme to popsali jako schopnosti amygdaly. Emoce jsou \u010din, m&aacute;me je k akci. Ale jinak m&aacute; ten instruktor pravdu, proto\u017ee v\u011bt&scaron;ina \u010din\u016f v na&scaron;ich \u017eivotech n&aacute;sleduje po my&scaron;lence. Nejd\u0159&iacute;v doch&aacute;z&iacute; k racionalizaci, k mentalizaci toho procesu, a potom k \u010dinu. A ten by m\u011bl b&yacute;t veden&yacute; rozumem, pochopen&iacute;m situace, pokud jsou mentalita a racio veden&eacute; spr&aacute;vnou etikou.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>U\u010d&iacute; ho Konfucius n\u011bco konkr&eacute;tn&iacute;ho?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">V&scaron;echno je konkr&eacute;tn&iacute;, i rada, aby jel do&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Dr&aacute;\u017e\u010fan za Sixtinskou madonou. Jedna&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">z velmi konkr&eacute;tn&iacute;ch technik je t\u0159eba&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">pr&aacute;ce s esplany, co\u017e je term&iacute;n B\u0159etislava&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kafky, nebo sankalpa. My se ztr&aacute;c&iacute;me&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ve v&iacute;ru sv&yacute;ch tu\u017eeb a p\u0159&aacute;n&iacute; a v na&scaron;&iacute; dob\u011b&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">jde o s&iacute;lu a majetek. Hmota a materi&aacute;ln&iacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">statky ur\u010duj&iacute; sm\u011br. Kdy\u017e ale netla\u010d&iacute;te&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">na pilu, m\u016f\u017eete jako pomocn&iacute;ka pou\u017e&iacute;t&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">jemnou touhu. To je sankalpa. Sv\u011bt kolem&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">n&aacute;s se neust&aacute;le m\u011bn&iacute;, co\u017e je jedna&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">z nemnoha jistot na&scaron;&iacute; existence. Spolehnout&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">se na stabilitu je tak\u0159ka nemo\u017en&eacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">a tomu podl&eacute;h&aacute; i na&scaron;e mysl. Pocity,&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">emoce, my&scaron;lenkov&eacute; procesy, to v&scaron;echno&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">vznik&aacute;, zanik&aacute;, v&scaron;e se po\u0159&aacute;d prom\u011b\u0148uje.&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kdy\u017e se v\u011bnujete mysli, pom\u016f\u017eete&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">vyrovnat nejv\u011bt&scaron;&iacute; v&yacute;kyvy. Sankalpa pracuje&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">s v\u011bdomou mysl&iacute;. Pom\u016f\u017ee nasm\u011brovat&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">pozornost a prom\u011b\u0148ov&aacute;n&iacute;m my&scaron;lenek&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ji uv&eacute;st do reality. Je to stejn&eacute;, jako&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">by se \u010dlov\u011bk naprogramoval na pozitivn&iacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u0159e\u010d a jeho podv\u011bdom&iacute; pravideln&yacute;m opakov&aacute;n&iacute;m&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">uv\u011b\u0159ilo, \u017ee ten program u\u017e pou\u017e&iacute;v&aacute;.&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Je to vlastn\u011b pozitivn&iacute; afirmace,&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">kterou podpo\u0159&iacute;te d\u011bn&iacute; v sob\u011b a kolem&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">sebe. Existuje k tomu b&aacute;se\u0148, kterou napsal&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">indick&yacute; mistr Sv&aacute;m&iacute; &Scaron;iv&aacute;nanda:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Zasej my&scaron;lenku a sklid&iacute;&scaron; \u010din.<\/em><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Zasej \u010din a sklid&iacute;&scaron; zvyk.<\/em><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Zasej zvyk a sklid&iacute;&scaron; charakter.<\/em><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><em>Zasej charakter a sklid&iacute;&scaron; osud.<\/em><br \/><\/span><br \/><strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Kniha m&aacute; podtitul Od \u017eivotn&iacute; skepse ke&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">klidn&eacute; mysli.<\/span><\/strong><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">A o tom tak&eacute; je. \u017divotn&iacute; skepsi za\u017eil ka\u017ed&yacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">z n&aacute;s. Toho mlad&eacute;ho mu\u017ee nau\u010dily&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">hovory s Konfuciem hodn\u011b, t\u0159eba \u017ee&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">i kdy\u017e minulost byla nep\u0159&iacute;zniv&aacute;, nesm&iacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">otr&aacute;vit p\u0159&iacute;tomnost. A \u017ee kdo se s minulost&iacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">nevyrovnal, nem&aacute; ani budoucnost.&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Teprve po \u010dase mu do&scaron;lo, \u017ee ho celou&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">dobu u\u010dil, jak pou\u017e&iacute;vat svoji mysl. Do t&eacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">doby nev\u011bd\u011bl, jak se to d\u011bl&aacute;, \u017ee je mo\u017en&eacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">pova\u017eovat svoje my&scaron;lenky za pevn&yacute;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">most, a ne za jeho zrcadlov&yacute; obraz. Nau\u010dil&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">ho, jak b&yacute;t v\u011bdom&yacute;m \u010dlov\u011bkem \u017eij&iacute;c&iacute;m&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">&scaron;\u0165astn\u011b v magick&eacute; realit\u011b prom\u011bnliv&eacute;ho&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u017eivota.<br \/><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\"><strong>Bude pokra\u010dov&aacute;n&iacute;?<\/strong><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Tohle t&eacute;ma je integr&aacute;ln&iacute; a t&yacute;k&aacute; se ka\u017ed&eacute;ho,&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">kdo se chce nau\u010dit pracovat se&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">svou mysl&iacute;. Ka\u017ed&yacute; rok bychom cht\u011bli&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">p\u0159ipravit jednu knihu z &bdquo;konfuci&aacute;nsk&eacute;&ldquo;&nbsp;<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">\u0159ady.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Text: Michael Schubert<\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 12pt;\">Foto: Adam Kucha\u0159<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vysu\u0161en\u00e1 rostlina zelen\u00e9ho \u010daje ze sebe pust\u00ed to nejlep\u0161\u00ed, jen kdy\u017e ji zalijete p\u0159im\u011b\u0159en\u011b horkou vodou. To je jedno z poselstv\u00ed knihy Moje hovory s Konfuciem. Ment\u00e1ln\u00ed kou\u010d Marian Jel\u00ednek a publicista a spisovatel Ji\u0159\u00ed Kucha\u0159 spolu napsali \u0159adu knih. Jejich novinka je v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e1 t\u00edm, \u017ee hlavn\u00edm t\u00e9matem je probuzen\u00ed klidn\u00e9 mysli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":331567,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[21848],"class_list":["post-331566","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rozhovor","tag-revue"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/331566","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=331566"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/331566\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/331567"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=331566"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=331566"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=331566"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}