{"id":325995,"date":"2025-11-06T07:54:00","date_gmt":"2025-11-06T06:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=325995"},"modified":"2025-11-05T16:55:11","modified_gmt":"2025-11-05T15:55:11","slug":"patrik-hartl-manzelstvi-rozhovor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/rozhovor\/patrik-hartl-manzelstvi-rozhovor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201eChci, aby moje psan\u00ed bylo pro lidi z\u00e1\u017eitkem.\u201c: Rozhovor s Patrikem Hartlem"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I sedm\u00e1 kniha Patrika Hartla Man\u017eelstv\u00ed <\/em>se\u00a0v\u011bnuje l\u00e1sce a vztah\u016fm. V rozhovoru pro Magaz\u00edn Luxor prozradil, \u017ee se tentokr\u00e1t sna\u017eil se napsat osudov\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh jednoho man\u017eelstv\u00ed od za\u010d\u00e1tku a\u017e do konce.\u00a0P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh o v\u011b\u010dn\u00e9m sv\u00e1ru l\u00e1sky a v\u0161ednosti.\u00a0P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s vt\u00e1hne a nepust\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pro\u010d m\u00e1 kniha tak kr\u00e1tkou anotaci?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Proto\u017ee chci, aby \u010dten\u00e1\u0159 vstoupil do p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu bez o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Tou\u017e\u00edm po tom, aby si d\u011bj bez n\u00e1pov\u011bdy odkr\u00fdval s\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Prorad\u00edte na\u0161im \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, co v\u00e1s inspirovalo napsat\u00a0rom\u00e1n Man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a><\/em> a zpracovat v n\u011bm v\u011b\u010dn\u00fd boj l\u00e1sky s v\u0161ednost\u00ed?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Strach. P\u00ed\u0161u a vym\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy o tom, \u010deho se s\u00e1m boj\u00edm. Jsem se svoj\u00ed \u017eenou velmi \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, miluji ji a nikdy bych ji nevym\u011bnil. Ale b\u00fdt spolu spokojen\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00fd den \u2013 v \u00fater\u00fd, sobotu, ned\u011bli, zase v\u00a0\u00fater\u00fd\u2026 to je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Udr\u017eet radost a bl\u00edzkost, kdy\u017e jste spolu tak dlouho a ka\u017ed\u00fd den p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed nov\u00fd bal\u00ed\u010dek probl\u00e9m\u016f, je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. A ty bal\u00ed\u010dky p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed po\u0159\u00e1d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Boj\u00edm se, aby se mnou m\u00e1 \u017eena vydr\u017eela. Na dobr\u00e9 vlastnosti partnera si \u010dlov\u011bk zvykne rychle, \u010dasem zev\u0161edn\u00ed. Nem\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt cel\u00fd \u017eivot ka\u017ed\u00fd den nad\u0161en\u00e1 z toho, \u017ee je v\u00e1\u0161 mu\u017e hezk\u00fd nebo spolehliv\u00fd.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Dlouhodob\u00fd vztah je slo\u017eit\u00fd t\u00edm, \u017ee neust\u00e1le \u010del\u00ed drobn\u00e9mu rozm\u011bln\u011bn\u00ed. Hodnoty, kter\u00e9 byly na za\u010d\u00e1tku vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed a magnetick\u00e9, se \u010dasem oslabuj\u00ed. Nev\u00edm, jestli je se mnou moje \u017eena doopravdy \u0161\u0165astn\u00e1. A jestli bude. Proto\u017ee se \u010dasto chov\u00e1m jinak, ne\u017e by si p\u0159\u00e1la. Jsem pod tv\u016fr\u010d\u00edm tlakem, po\u0159\u00e1d bojuju o n\u011bjakou vymy\u0161lenou kr\u00e1su, \u017eiju v\u00a0realit\u011b sv\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f. Je to se mnou slo\u017eit\u00e9. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee kdyby se se mnou moje \u017eena v\u00eddala jen jednou za m\u011bs\u00edc, byla by z\u00a0m\u00e9 energie nad\u0161en\u00e1! (sm\u00edch) Ale vst\u0159eb\u00e1vat m\u016fj neklid a p\u0159ecitliv\u011blost denn\u011b je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Je\u00a0nov\u00fd rom\u00e1n osobn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e va\u0161e p\u0159edchoz\u00ed knihy, nebo \u010derp\u00e1te sp\u00ed\u0161 z toho, co sly\u0161\u00edte okolo?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je osobn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v tom smyslu, \u017ee bych psal autobiograficky. D\u011bj je op\u011bt vymy\u0161len\u00fd. Nen\u00ed tam \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 situace z m\u00e9ho vlastn\u00edho man\u017eelstv\u00ed. Ale cht\u011bl jsem napsat p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh o lidech, kte\u0159\u00ed se obrovsky miluj\u00ed, a p\u0159esto pro n\u011b nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e9 b\u00fdt spolu po\u0159\u00e1d \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed. A to u\u017e se m\u00e9 zku\u0161enosti dot\u00fdk\u00e1. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed mi na uv\u011b\u0159itelnosti, aby kniha p\u016fsobila autenticky, i kdy\u017e jde o fikci. P\u0159i psan\u00ed hluboce pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m ka\u017ed\u00fd detail, ka\u017edou postavu, jako bych to byl j\u00e1 s\u00e1m. R\u00e1d se do p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f naplno v\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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M\u011bl jste p\u0159i psan\u00ed jasno, jak p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh skon\u010d\u00ed, nebo jste ho nechal \u017e\u00edt vlastn\u00edm \u017eivotem?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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M\u011bl jsem jasno. P\u0159\u00e1l jsem si, aby skon\u010dil happyendem, proto\u017ee m\u011b autorsky vzru\u0161uje hled\u00e1n\u00ed pozitivity. Konec jsem m\u011bl vymy\u0161len\u00fd. Ale v pr\u016fb\u011bhu psan\u00ed jsem ho zm\u011bnil, abych dos\u00e1hl uv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011bj\u0161\u00edho happy endu, ne\u017e jsme p\u016fvodn\u011b m\u011bl v pl\u00e1nu. Autentick\u00fd z\u00e1v\u011br je podm\u00ednkou velk\u00e9ho dojet\u00ed. Cht\u011bl jsem do p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu dostat maximum l\u00e1sky a dojet\u00ed. Nikdy p\u0159edt\u00edm jsem konec knihy nem\u011bnil, tohle se mi stalo poprv\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Kniha vypr\u00e1v\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh jednoho man\u017eelstv\u00ed, od za\u010d\u00e1tku a\u017e do konce. Jak se v\u00e1m v tom \u017eilo?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Dozn\u00edvalo to ve mn\u011b siln\u011b\u2026 V pr\u016fb\u011bhu psan\u00ed jsem zjistil, \u017ee jsem do toho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu \u00fapln\u011b nekriticky zamilovan\u00fd. Cht\u011bl jsem, aby se ta s\u00edla l\u00e1sky dostala i ke \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm. Jako autor nejsem s ka\u017edou dal\u0161\u00ed knihou obrn\u011bn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed nebo zku\u0161en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Naopak, jsem \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l v\u00edc \u201enah\u00fd\u201c. P\u00ed\u0161u v\u00edc ze sv\u00e9ho nitra, bl\u00ed\u017e k sob\u011b, jak jen to jde. \u010cten\u00e1\u0159i u\u017e znaj\u00ed moje triky a styl, ale tentokr\u00e1t douf\u00e1m, \u017ee najdou n\u011bco, co ne\u010dekaj\u00ed. A to je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9… skoro nadlidsk\u00fd \u00fakol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Cht\u011bl jste zachytit, jak se l\u00e1ska prom\u011b\u0148uje s \u010dasem \u2013 nebo sp\u00ed\u0161, jak se \u010das prom\u011b\u0148uje l\u00e1skou?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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S\u00e1m miluju tak moc, \u017ee to m\u00e1 pro m\u011b osudov\u00e9 rozm\u011bry. Kv\u016fli sv\u00e9 \u017een\u011b bych bez v\u00e1h\u00e1n\u00ed zem\u0159el, a je\u0161t\u011b bych byl \u0161\u0165astn\u00fd, \u017ee m\u016fj \u017eivot m\u011bl d\u00edky takov\u00e9 smrti smysl. Tohle ve mn\u011b \u010dasem po\u0159\u00e1d s\u00edl\u00ed. M\u00e1m v sob\u011b hodn\u011b romantizuj\u00edc\u00ed energie a tu jsem se sna\u017eil vepsat i do p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Je kniha i o napln\u011bn\u00ed \u017eivota?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee napln\u011bn\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed tehdy, kdy\u017e do druh\u00e9ho investujeme cit, kdy\u017e d\u00e1v\u00e1me. Do partnera, do d\u011bt\u00ed. Jana s\u00a0Martinem, hlavn\u00ed postavy Man\u017eelstv\u00ed,<\/em> si vz\u00e1jemn\u011b daj\u00ed v\u0161echno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Napln\u011bn\u00fd \u017eivot je podle m\u011b ten, kdy d\u00e1te druh\u00e9mu ve\u0161kerou svou l\u00e1sku a on v\u00e1m ji vr\u00e1t\u00ed. To je \u00falet! Kdy\u017e v \u010dlov\u011bku z\u016fstane touha milovat, ale nem\u00e1 ji komu d\u00e1t, pak je to smutn\u00e9.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Kniha sleduje n\u011bkolik \u017eivotn\u00edch dek\u00e1d. Vy\u017eadovalo to jin\u00fd rytmus psan\u00ed?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Bavilo m\u011b vypou\u0161t\u011bt \u201evatu\u201c. Lidsk\u00fd \u017eivot je pln\u00fd opakuj\u00edc\u00edch se ban\u00e1ln\u00edch dn\u016f. N\u011bkdy jsem ten fakt v p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu z\u00e1m\u011brn\u011b vyu\u017eil. Ale sp\u00ed\u0161 m\u011b bavilo p\u0159eskakovat k \u017eivotn\u00edm miln\u00edk\u016fm. Jsem netrp\u011bliv\u00e1 povaha, tak\u017ee m\u011b t\u011b\u0161ilo ps\u00e1t jen to, co je pro \u017eivot a vztah opravdu podstatn\u00e9. Bavilo m\u011b p\u0159edstavovat si dek\u00e1dy, kter\u00e9 m\u011b jednou \u010dekaj\u00ed, jak\u00e9 to bude v p\u011bta\u0161edes\u00e1ti, jak se asi budu m\u011bnit. Tahle f\u00e1ze psan\u00ed m\u011b vlastn\u011b nejv\u00edc obohatila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Co v\u00e1s osobn\u011b na vztaz\u00edch fascinuje?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Nen\u00ed nic d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edho ne\u017e to, s k\u00fdm sv\u016fj \u017eivot pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te. Na \u0161kol\u00e1ch se o vztaz\u00edch neu\u010d\u00ed, a p\u0159itom jde o to nejz\u00e1sadn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. J\u00e1 prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm psan\u00ed pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m mnoho vztah\u016f. Sna\u017e\u00edm se, aby moje knihy mohly lidem nab\u00eddnout autentickou zku\u0161enost, citov\u00e9 sd\u00edlen\u00ed a uklid\u0148uj\u00edc\u00ed v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b neplavou sami. Proto\u017ee to, co pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me a mnohdy si v\u00a0tom p\u0159ipad\u00e1me osamocen\u00ed, se v n\u011bjak\u00e9 podob\u011b d\u011bje n\u00e1m v\u0161em.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Co podle v\u00e1s d\u011bl\u00e1 z man\u017eelstv\u00ed \u201edobr\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u201c. Humor, tolerance, nebo odvaha b\u00fdt s\u00e1m sebou?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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T\u011b\u017ek\u00e1 ot\u00e1zka. Je t\u0159eba p\u0159iznat, \u017ee kdy\u017e \u010dlov\u011bk nap\u00ed\u0161e rom\u00e1n o man\u017eelstv\u00ed, nest\u00e1v\u00e1 se odborn\u00edkem na man\u017eelstv\u00ed. Pro m\u011b je man\u017eelstv\u00ed pevn\u00fdm bodem v \u017eivot\u011b. Je to jistota v nejist\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b. V\u00edm, co mohu o\u010dek\u00e1vat. Kdy\u017e s n\u011bk\u00fdm sd\u00edl\u00edte \u017eivot, zn\u00e1te ho, p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1te jeho povahu a on tu va\u0161i, vznik\u00e1 harmonie. Ta jistota uklid\u0148uje. Je to pozitivn\u00ed hodnota. Ale stejn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 je schopnost radovat se. Udr\u017eet v man\u017eelstv\u00ed jiskru a radost ze spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00e9ho \u010dasu je mo\u017en\u00e1 nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdzva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Co byste lidem pop\u0159\u00e1l do vztah\u016f a do man\u017eelstv\u00ed?<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

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Aby byli \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed i ve v\u0161edn\u00ed, oby\u010dejn\u00fd den, t\u0159eba jen proto, \u017ee sn\u00eddaj\u00ed s n\u011bk\u00fdm, koho miluj\u00ed.
Proto\u017ee kdy\u017e se lid\u00e9 zamiluj\u00ed, jejich nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed touhou je vid\u011bt se z\u00edtra znovu. A kdyby se jim tuhle touhu poda\u0159ilo udr\u017eet co nejd\u00e9le, bylo by to kr\u00e1sn\u00e9.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

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O novince Man\u017eelstv\u00ed<\/a>:<\/em><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh o boji l\u00e1sky s v\u0161ednost\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e se do sebe Jana s Martinem zamilovali, v\u0161ichni byli p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee jejich vztah nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dnou budoucnost. Ani oni sami nev\u011b\u0159ili, \u017ee jim spolu m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dob\u0159e d\u00e9le ne\u017e chv\u00edli\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Rozhovor vy\u0161el v Magaz\u00ednu Luxor v listopadu 2025. Jeho autorkou je Jana Br\u00e1zdilov\u00e1. Autorkou \u00favodn\u00ed fotografie i dal\u0161\u00edch fotografi\u00ed autora je Lenka Hata\u0161ov\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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