{"id":325281,"date":"2022-08-09T10:09:32","date_gmt":"2022-08-09T08:09:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/nezarazene\/63535-mezi-laskou-a-nenavisti\/"},"modified":"2022-08-09T10:09:32","modified_gmt":"2022-08-09T08:09:32","slug":"63535-mezi-laskou-a-nenavisti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/recenze\/63535-mezi-laskou-a-nenavisti\/","title":{"rendered":"Mezi l\u00e1skou a nen\u00e1vist\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Felix Love je studentem newyorsk\u00e9 um\u011bleck\u00e9 \u0161koly a jeho snem je dostat se na Brownovu univerzitu. A tak\u00e9 se kone\u010dn\u011b zamilovat. To ov\u0161em nen\u00ed tak jednoduch\u00e9, kdy\u017e je n\u011bkdo \u010dernoch, queer a nav\u00edc transgender. A jeliko\u017e jej p\u0159ed lety opustila vlastn\u00ed matka, ob\u010das je pro n\u011bj probl\u00e9m v\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1sku. Jeho otec se sice sna\u017e\u00ed a podporuje ho, ale ani po letech se nedok\u00e1zal sm\u00ed\u0159it s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee m\u00e1 m\u00edsto dcery syna, a st\u00e1le jej tak ob\u010das oslovuje jeho star\u00fdm jm\u00e9nem, co\u017e Felixe velmi tr\u00e1p\u00ed. I proto tr\u00e1v\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inu \u010dasu se sv\u00fdm nejlep\u0161\u00edm p\u0159\u00edtelem Ezrou, gay synkem z\u00a0bohat\u00e9 rodiny.<\/p>\n<p>Felix\u016fv zd\u00e1nliv\u011b bezstarostn\u00fd \u017eivot se zm\u011bn\u00ed ve chv\u00edli, kdy n\u011bkdo vystav\u00ed ve \u0161kole jeho star\u00e9 fotky p\u0159ed prom\u011bnou v\u010detn\u011b jeho rodn\u00e9ho jm\u00e9na. A\u010d se Felix nikdy skute\u010dnost\u00ed, \u017ee je trans, netajil, nenam\u00e1hal se ani skr\u00fdvat jizvy na hrudi, tento hrub\u00fd \u00fatok na jeho soukrom\u00ed ho siln\u011b zas\u00e1hne. A nav\u00edc mu pachatel t\u00e9to ohavnosti za\u010dne pos\u00edlat transfobn\u00ed zpr\u00e1vy. Kdo z\u00a0jeho spolu\u017e\u00e1k\u016f ho m\u016f\u017ee tak nen\u00e1vid\u011bt?<\/p>\n<p>Felix tu\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee za v\u0161\u00edm stoj\u00ed t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed hv\u011bzda Declan Keane, a tak si zalo\u017e\u00ed fale\u0161n\u00fd \u00fa\u010det na Instagramu a za\u010dne si s\u00a0n\u00edm ps\u00e1t v\u00a0nad\u011bji, \u017ee z\u00edsk\u00e1 nejen d\u016fkaz, \u017ee to ud\u011blal, ale vy\u0161\u0165our\u00e1 i n\u011bjak\u00e9 jeho tajemstv\u00ed, je\u017e by proti n\u011bmu mohl pou\u017e\u00edt. Jak\u00e9 je ov\u0161em jeho p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed, kdy\u017e se uk\u00e1\u017ee, \u017ee je Declan nejen nevinn\u00fd, ale nav\u00edc se do sv\u00e9ho tajemn\u00e9ho d\u016fv\u011brn\u00edka zamiloval? A ani Felixovi nen\u00ed lhostejn\u00fd. Je tu v\u0161ak je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bkdo, ke komu chov\u00e1 jist\u00e9 city, a tak se kluk, jen\u017e si v\u011b\u010dn\u011b st\u011b\u017eoval, \u017ee se mu l\u00e1ska vyh\u00fdb\u00e1, n\u00e1hle ocitne v\u00a0milostn\u00e9m troj\u00faheln\u00edku. Jak ale pov\u011bd\u011bt Declanovi pravdu o tom, s\u00a0k\u00fdm si celou dobu p\u00ed\u0161e? A kdo tedy stoj\u00ed za t\u011bmi nechutn\u00fdmi zpr\u00e1vami?<\/p>\n<p>Kniha se \u010dte velmi dob\u0159e, m\u00e1 moc p\u011bknou ob\u00e1lku a ten kv\u011btinov\u00fd o\u0159ez? Par\u00e1da! A a\u010d m\u011b Felix ob\u010das trochu \u0161tval \u2013 nejsem zrovna p\u0159\u00edznivec kou\u0159en\u00ed marihuany nebo nav\u00e1\u017een\u00ed se do jin\u00fdch, abych nemusela \u0159e\u0161it vlastn\u00ed probl\u00e9my \u2013, l\u00edbilo se mi, jak se dok\u00e1zal \u0161ikan\u011b postavit. M\u011bl v\u00a0sob\u011b velkou vnit\u0159n\u00ed s\u00edlu, je\u017e by se mnoh\u00fdm v\u00a0podobn\u00e9 situaci hodila. Velmi oce\u0148uji jeho snahu aktivn\u011b probl\u00e9m \u0159e\u0161it, a\u010dkoli si nezvolil zrovna nejlep\u0161\u00ed zp\u016fsob. Nenechat se zlomit, nez\u016fst\u00e1vat pasivn\u00edm a uk\u00e1zat \u00fato\u010dn\u00edkovi, \u017ee v\u00e1m nem\u016f\u017ee ubl\u00ed\u017eit tak, jak by z\u0159ejm\u011b r\u00e1d (i kdybyste to m\u011bli jen p\u0159edst\u00edrat), je ur\u010dit\u011b dobr\u00fdm poselstv\u00edm, proto\u017ee ml\u010den\u00ed a tich\u00e1 rezignace v\u00e1m nepomohou stoprocentn\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Rovn\u011b\u017e se mi velmi l\u00edbil zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm je pod\u00e1n cel\u00fd probl\u00e9m zm\u011bny pohlav\u00ed. Pochybnosti, jak\u00fdmi si takov\u00e1 osoba proch\u00e1z\u00ed, a r\u016fzn\u00e9 reakce jej\u00edho okol\u00ed. Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed je v\u017edy podpora ze strany rodiny, a p\u0159esto\u017ee se Felix\u016fv otec opravdu sna\u017eil, bylo vid\u011bt, \u017ee s\u00a0t\u00edm s\u00e1m velmi bojuje, co\u017e situaci jeho syna jen zhor\u0161ovalo. Tento probl\u00e9m se, jak koneckonc\u016f i kniha ukazuje, net\u00fdk\u00e1 jen transgender osob, ale prakticky v\u0161ech queer lid\u00ed, kter\u00e9 paradoxn\u011b \u010dasto sp\u00ed\u0161e p\u0159ijmou ciz\u00ed osoby ne\u017e jejich nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Autor\u016fm Kacen Callender se tento p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh velmi povedl, mo\u017en\u00e1 i proto, \u017ee jsou sami, stejn\u011b jako Felix, \u010dern\u00ed, queer a transgender, a tak mohli perfektn\u011b zprost\u0159edkovat du\u0161evn\u00ed stav hrdiny i postoj spole\u010dnosti v\u016f\u010di n\u011bmu.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00e1m r\u00e1da tyto p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a podle m\u011b jsou velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 proto, abychom pochopili, co druz\u00ed pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed. K\u00a0tomu, abychom si uv\u011bdomili, \u017ee a\u0165 u\u017e m\u00e1 n\u011bkdo jakoukoli n\u00e1lepku, po\u0159\u00e1d je to \u010dlov\u011bk jako my, m\u00e1 citlivou du\u0161i a my bychom se k\u00a0n\u011bmu m\u011bli chovat s\u00a0respektem, jak\u00fd si zaslou\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Petra Kamlachov\u00e1<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" src=\"https:\/\/images.knizniklub.cz\/kavarna\/20220804100918.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"386\" height=\"289\" title=\"\"><\/p>\n<p>Autor:\u00a0Petra Kamlachov\u00e1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tak by se dal charakterizovat p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh hlavn\u00edho hrdiny knihy <em>Felix a\u017e nav\u011bky<\/em>. Zat\u00edmco po l\u00e1sce, je\u017e se mu zat\u00edm vyh\u00fdb\u00e1, opravdu tou\u017e\u00ed, nen\u00e1vist mu zas\u00e1hne do \u017eivota zcela ne\u010dekan\u011b a po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b mu ho znep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":325282,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[21832],"class_list":["post-325281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recenze","tag-literarni-kavarna"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/325281","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=325281"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/325281\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/325282"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=325281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=325281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=325281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}