Mia se sv\u00e9 hol\u010di\u010dky vzdala jako hodn\u011b mlad\u00e1. A vlastn\u011b to nikdy nebylo ani jej\u00edm p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edm. Je\u0161t\u011b ale studovala a jej\u00ed rodi\u010de nedali jinak. A tak s t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdm srdcem odevzdala svou Daisy do rukou Suzanne. V n\u00e1valu emoc\u00ed ov\u0161em navrhne otev\u0159enou adopci.<\/p>\n
Suzanne se sv\u00fdm man\u017eelem Markem tou\u017e\u00ed po d\u00edt\u011bti u\u017e dlouho. Jen\u017ee on m\u00e1 probl\u00e9m, kv\u016fli kter\u00e9mu se to neda\u0159\u00ed. Tak\u017ee je pro n\u011b mlad\u00e1 a na prvn\u00ed pohled slu\u0161n\u00e1 d\u00edvka Mia darem z nebes. Kdy\u017e na posledn\u00ed chv\u00edli p\u0159ijde s otev\u0159enou adopc\u00ed, nemohou ji odm\u00edtnout. U\u017e p\u0159ece maj\u00ed svoje mal\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed na dosah ruky.<\/p>\n
Otev\u0159en\u00e1 adopce je koncept, p\u0159i kter\u00e9m z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 biologick\u00fd rodi\u010d\/rodi\u010de sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u017eivota d\u00edt\u011bte. A ob\u011b \u017eeny si moc p\u0159ej\u00ed, aby to fungovalo. V teoretick\u00e9 rovin\u011b to p\u0159eci znamen\u00e1, \u017ee bude m\u00edt hol\u010di\u010dka o jednu osobu v \u017eivot\u011b nav\u00edc, kter\u00e1 ji bude milovat, ne?<\/p>\n
A roky plynou…<\/p>\n
Daisy u\u017e je skoro dosp\u011bl\u00e1. Se svou adoptivn\u00ed matkou si zrovna moc nerozum\u00ed, po t\u00e9 biologick\u00e9 zato \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l t\u00edm v\u00edc tou\u017e\u00ed. Je to ale jedin\u00fd d\u016fvod, pro\u010d k n\u00ed tak n\u00e1hle utekla? Co v\u0161echno vedlo k tomu, \u017ee pot\u0159ebovala „vypadnout“ z New Yorku? Poda\u0159\u00ed se j\u00ed p\u0159i pobytu u sv\u00e9 biologick\u00e9 matky objevit i jm\u00e9no biologick\u00e9ho otce? Jak v\u016fbec do\u0161lo k jej\u00edmu po\u010det\u00ed?<\/p>\n
Mia posledn\u00edch p\u00e1r let svou prvorozenou dceru nezahrnovala zrovna pozornost\u00ed. Z jej\u00edho \u017eivota se pozvolna ztr\u00e1cela, vdala se a porodila dal\u0161\u00ed t\u0159i dcery. Jak se popasuje s t\u00edm, \u017ee se j\u00ed Daisy zni\u010dehonic objevila na prahu? Pro\u010d pova\u017euje vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 setk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed za komplikovan\u00e9, kdy\u017e to byla ona, kdo o otev\u0159enou adopci kdysi st\u00e1l? Co p\u0159ed svou dcerou taj\u00ed? A jak Daisyna p\u0159\u00edtomnost ovlivn\u00ed Miinu sou\u010dasnou rodinu?<\/p>\n
Kdy\u017e z\u016fstane Suzanne odvr\u017een\u00e1 svou adoptivn\u00ed dcerou sv\u011bt se pro ni zastav\u00ed. U\u017e p\u0159ed n\u011bjakou dobou si pro\u0161la rozvodem a te\u010f z\u016fstala v pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9m byt\u011b sama \u00fapln\u011b. Jak m\u00e1 svou dceru p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit, \u017ee ji miluje? Co d\u011bl\u00e1 \u0161patn\u011b? Nebo by ji m\u011bla nechat j\u00edt svou cestou? Sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee jako man\u017eelka i matka selhala? Dok\u00e1\u017ee si Suzanne odpov\u011bd\u011bt na tyto ot\u00e1zky a p\u0159itom naj\u00edt alespo\u0148 kous\u00ed\u010dek \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed? Dok\u00e1\u017ee znovu \u017e\u00edt?<\/p>\n
Kniha je sondou do pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed matek adoptivn\u00edch i biologick\u00fdch. Do jejich strach\u016f, \u00fazkost\u00ed a nejistot. Do jejich (alespo\u0148 v tomhle p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b) l\u00e1skou p\u0159et\u00e9kaj\u00edc\u00edch srdc\u00ed k jedn\u00e9 a t\u00e9 sam\u00e9 d\u00edvce. A jak a pro\u010d vn\u00edm\u00e1 ob\u011b \u017eeny samotn\u00e1 Daisy? Pro\u010d nesta\u010d\u00ed pouze b\u00fdt biologickou matkou, abychom matkou skute\u010dn\u011b byly? A pom\u016f\u017ee p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst v\u0161echny knihy o adopci, abychom se stali dobr\u00fdm rodi\u010dem, nebo je to jednodu\u0161e nemo\u017en\u00fd \u00fakol?<\/p>\n
Tento po\u010din se nesna\u017e\u00ed \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee otev\u0159en\u00e1 adopce je n\u011bco \u0161patn\u00e9ho, co nem\u016f\u017ee fungovat. Naopak. Je to n\u011bco skv\u011bl\u00e9ho, co ale \u010dasto komplikuje \u010dlov\u011bk s\u00e1m. Lidsk\u00e9 emoce a slabosti. P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh n\u00e1m tak\u00e9 ukazuje, jak zkreslen\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt na\u0161e vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka. Jsou to emocemi nabit\u00e9 str\u00e1nky, kter\u00e9 ale netla\u010d\u00ed na pilu a sp\u00ed\u0161e jen velmi brilantn\u011b popisuj\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00e9 z\u00e1kruty lidsk\u00e9ho my\u0161len\u00ed a vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed. A toho, jak je adopce, ale vlastn\u011b \u017eivot s\u00e1m stra\u0161n\u011b slo\u017eit\u00e1 v\u011bc…<\/p>\n
Doporu\u010duji sp\u00ed\u0161e n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm. D\u011bj se n\u00e1m tu toti\u017e \u0161t\u011bp\u00ed na minulost a p\u0159\u00edtomnost, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e minulost je psan\u00e1 pozp\u00e1tku. A vyprav\u011b\u010de tu m\u00e1me hned t\u0159i \u2013 Miu, Suzanne a Daisy. To v\u0161echno ov\u0161em m\u00e1 sv\u016fj d\u016fvod a pom\u00e1h\u00e1 v\u0161e p\u0159edest\u0159\u00edt tak, jak by to m\u011blo zazn\u00edt. A knize to rozhodn\u011b p\u0159id\u00e1v\u00e1 body za originalitu.<\/p>\n
Tak\u017ee zb\u00fdv\u00e1 polo\u017eit si ot\u00e1zku – dok\u00e1\u017eou v\u0161echny t\u0159i \u017eeny pochopit jedna druhou a odpustit si, d\u0159\u00edv ne\u017e dojde ke katastrof\u011b? A pokud k t\u00e9 katastrof\u011b dojde, jak moc nen\u00e1vratn\u011b je to rozd\u011bl\u00ed?\u00a0<\/p>\n
D\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 jsem nem\u011bla = kniha, co byste nem\u011bli minout.<\/p>\n
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Sacharin<\/p>\n
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V\u011bt\u0161ina \u017een tou\u017e\u00ed b\u00fdt matkou. N\u011bkter\u00e9 se j\u00ed ale stanou p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 brzy, jin\u00e9 maj\u00ed naopak s po\u010det\u00edm probl\u00e9my. Ale pokud \u201cmaj\u00ed \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed\u201d, m\u016f\u017eou pomoci jedna druh\u00e9\u2026 A po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b si t\u00edm zamotat \u017eivot.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":324912,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[21832],"class_list":["post-324911","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recenze","tag-literarni-kavarna"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/324911","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=324911"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/324911\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/324912"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=324911"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=324911"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=324911"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}