\u017d\u00edt ve spole\u010dnosti, kde st\u00e1le plat\u00ed tradice a pravidla minulosti. Ve spole\u010dnosti, kde je \u017eena pod\u0159\u00edzena sv\u00e9mu mu\u017ei, otci i v\u0161emu, co se po n\u00ed \u017e\u00e1d\u00e1. Nem\u00e1 na vybranou. N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny se pod\u0159\u00edd\u00ed, jin\u00e9 si najdou cesty a c\u00edle, kter\u00fdmi mohou naplnit sv\u016fj \u017eivot, ani\u017e by t\u00edm zd\u00e1nliv\u011b poru\u0161ily pravidla.<\/p>\n
Zd\u00e1n\u00ed norm\u00e1lnosti. To je to, co se vlastn\u011b vy\u017eaduje t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u00a0jak\u00e9koliv spole\u010dnosti. Jinakost byla \u010dasto vn\u00edm\u00e1na jako probl\u00e9m. Probl\u00e9mem se v\u0161ak st\u00e1v\u00e1 a\u017e ve chv\u00edli, kdy se nejedn\u00e1 jen o n\u011b\u010d\u00ed vrtoch, ale o hlubok\u00e9 trauma, kter\u00e9 si sebou \u010dlov\u011bk nese po cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Nejslo\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed to b\u00fdv\u00e1, pokud si toho s\u00e1m nen\u00ed v\u011bdom. V\u00a0jeden moment tak m\u016f\u017ee na povrch vykrystalizovat cel\u00e1 erupce emoc\u00ed. Nezadr\u017eiteln\u00e1 pr\u016ftr\u017e, kter\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bku podraz\u00ed nohy a polo\u017e\u00ed ho na lopatky.<\/p>\n
Jonghje byla v\u017edy up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e1, p\u0159\u00edmo\u010dar\u00e1, \u010d\u00edm\u017e vy\u010dn\u00edvala oproti sv\u00fdm sourozenc\u016fm. Nen\u00ed tedy divu, \u017ee se na n\u00ed v\u00fdchova jejich p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9ho autoritativn\u00edho otce podepsala nejv\u00edc. N\u011bkde hluboko uvnit\u0159 se n\u011bco zlomilo. Bylo jen ot\u00e1zkou \u010dasu, kdy se v\u0161e dostane na povrch.<\/p>\n
\u00a0Na prvn\u00ed pohled se zd\u00e1 v\u0161e norm\u00e1ln\u00ed a v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku. Vd\u00e1 se a man\u017eel Songmin \u010cong s\u00a0n\u00ed pl\u00e1nuje m\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b. Tak to p\u0159eci m\u00e1 b\u00fdt. Pro\u010d by m\u011bla b\u00fdt proti? Spolu jsou ji\u017e p\u011bt let, tak je ten nejvhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010das. Ona by mu stejn\u011b nikam neode\u0161la. Kdo by o ni st\u00e1l? Je to jen pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00e1 \u017eena, nijak v\u00fdrazn\u00e1. Vybral si ji pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, \u017ee je to oby\u010dejn\u00e1 \u0161ed\u00e1 my\u0161. N\u011bkdo, kdo se zd\u00e1 b\u00fdt bez n\u00e1zoru, poslouch\u00e1, nen\u00ed konfliktn\u00ed. Dokonce p\u0159isp\u00edv\u00e1 i do rodinn\u00e9ho rozpo\u010dtu, a to mu vyhovuje. Byl tu jen jeden mal\u00fd probl\u00e9m. Nech\u00e1pal, jak mu tohle m\u016f\u017ee d\u011blat? To v\u00e1\u017en\u011b chce, aby se za n\u00ed musel styd\u011bt? Nikdy nerozum\u011bl jej\u00ed pot\u0159eb\u011b nenosit podprsenku. \u017de j\u00ed nen\u00ed hanba! V\u017edy\u0165 to ka\u017ed\u00fd mus\u00ed vid\u011bt. A ten jej\u00ed nemo\u017en\u00fd argument. Pr\u00fd ji \u0161krt\u00ed a nem\u016f\u017ee pak po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b d\u00fdchat. Zaj\u00edmav\u00e9, \u017ee miliony \u017een podprsenku nos\u00ed, ale jen ona s\u00a0t\u00edm m\u00e1 o\u010dividn\u011b probl\u00e9m. Tohle bude muset zm\u011bnit.<\/p>\n
Songmin v\u0161ak nev\u00ed, \u017ee to prav\u00e9 peklo ho teprve \u010dek\u00e1. Jeho \u017eena m\u00e1 sen. Zd\u00e1l se j\u00ed sen, a tak p\u0159estala j\u00edst maso. Tohle u\u017e nen\u00ed norm\u00e1ln\u00ed. Jak mu tohle m\u016f\u017ee po\u0159\u00e1d d\u011blat? On maso miluje. Jak ho m\u016f\u017ee takhle poni\u017eovat? Rozhodne se pro po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00fd \u00fader. Obvol\u00e1 jej\u00ed rodinu a ti j\u00ed u\u017e mus\u00ed domluvit. Mus\u00ed j\u00ed p\u0159iv\u00e9zt k\u00a0rozumu. Je\u0161t\u011b netu\u0161\u00ed, co sv\u00fdm rozhodnut\u00edm zp\u016fsob\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Ingje je o \u010dty\u0159i roky star\u0161\u00ed sestra Jonghje. Se sestrou si v\u017edy byly bl\u00edzk\u00e9, a tak r\u00e1da by j\u00ed pomohla. Opravdu m\u00e1 o n\u00ed starost. Ale ka\u017ed\u00e9 na\u0161e rozhodnut\u00ed sebou p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed i n\u00e1sledky. Kolikr\u00e1t ni\u010div\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e by n\u00e1s kdy v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b napadlo. D\u00edv\u00e1 se jej\u00ed man\u017eel na Jonghje stejn\u00fdma o\u010dima? Nebo v\u00a0n\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e1 vid\u00ed n\u011bco zcela jin\u00e9ho? Je rozhodnut\u00fd j\u00ed skute\u010dn\u011b pomoct nebo mysl\u00ed jen s\u00e1m na sebe? V\u0161e by bylo jinak, kdyby se nedozv\u011bd\u011bl o jej\u00ed modrozelen\u00e9 mongolsk\u00e9 skvrn\u011b, kterou m\u00e1 skrytou na t\u011ble.<\/p>\n
Na konci ka\u017ed\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu dojdeme k\u00a0pozn\u00e1n\u00ed. Jsou v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 by se nemuseli nikdy st\u00e1t, jen kdybychom se tenkr\u00e1t zachovali malinko jinak. Kdybychom poslechli sv\u016fj instinkt. To, co jsme schopni vydr\u017eet a p\u0159ed \u010d\u00edm neuhneme, m\u016f\u017ee jin\u00e9ho zab\u00edt.<\/p>\n
Jihokorejsk\u00e1 autorka knihy Vegetari\u00e1nka, Han Kang, je v\u00a0sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b zn\u00e1m\u00e1 v\u00a0mnoha zem\u00edch. I kdy\u017e se jej\u00ed kniha zprvu neprod\u00e1vala dob\u0159e, tak na druh\u00fd pokus z\u00edskala neb\u00fdval\u00e9 popularity. Kniha je to \u010dtiv\u00e1 a trochu mi p\u0159ipad\u00e1, vzhledem k\u00a0jej\u00edmu n\u00e1zvu se to moc nehod\u00ed napsat (nebo mo\u017en\u00e1 naopak ano), ale je psan\u00e1 takov\u00fdm syrov\u00fdm stylem, jak\u00e9ho nen\u00ed schopen ka\u017ed\u00fd autor. D\u00e1t na pap\u00edr temn\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed sv\u011bt jin\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka a um\u011bt rozepsat jeho my\u0161lenky a pocity se kter\u00fdmi bojuje, a to bez p\u0159\u00edkras, to je um\u011bn\u00ed. Je to jeden z\u00a0mnoha d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d by si m\u011bl \u010dlov\u011bk tuto knihu p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst. D\u00edky tomu, \u017ee se kniha ujala v\u00a0zahrani\u010d\u00ed, kdy lid\u00e9 mohli nahl\u00e9dnout do naprosto odli\u0161n\u011b funguj\u00edc\u00ed spole\u010dnosti, se kniha vrac\u00ed zp\u011bt do Korey s\u00a0dobrou reputac\u00ed a nov\u00fdm n\u00e1zorem. V\u00edc \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f m\u00e1 tak mo\u017enost si knihu p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst a spole\u010dn\u011b pak mohou zapracovat na zm\u011bn\u011b vlastn\u00edho \u017eeb\u0159\u00ed\u010dku hodnot. T\u00e9matem knihy Vegetari\u00e1nka vlastn\u011b v\u016fbec nen\u00ed vegetari\u00e1nstv\u00ed, proto\u017ee hlavn\u00ed postava se stala vegankou a ani o tom prim\u00e1rn\u011b kniha v\u016fbec nen\u00ed. \u201eNebezpe\u010d\u00ed p\u0159ijet\u00ed submisivn\u00ed role jako tich\u00fd souhlas v\u00a0agresivn\u00edm autoritativn\u00edm patriarch\u00e1tu.\u201c Kde m\u00e1 \u010dlov\u011bk sv\u00e9 hranice, ne\u017e ho pohlt\u00ed \u0161\u00edlenstv\u00ed?<\/p>\n
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Autor:\u00a0Eva Mare\u0161ov\u00e1<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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