{"id":237124,"date":"2025-05-22T10:23:13","date_gmt":"2025-05-22T08:23:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=237124"},"modified":"2025-05-22T10:23:14","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T08:23:14","slug":"ukazka-to-byl-jen-vtip","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/ukazky\/ukazka-to-byl-jen-vtip\/","title":{"rendered":"Sle\u010dna Ani\u010dka a pan doktor Nov\u00e1k: Uk\u00e1zka z knihy To byl jen vtip&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te nar\u00e1\u017eky nebo nevhodn\u00e9 \u201evtipy\u201c, ale vtipn\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f v\u00e1s napadne a\u017e po deseti minut\u00e1ch? C\u00edt\u00edte, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 situace v\u00e1s svazuj\u00ed a nut\u00ed ml\u010det, i kdy\u017e byste se cht\u011bli ozvat? Potom je tu pr\u00e1v\u011b pro v\u00e1s p\u0159\u00edru\u010dka\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/v\/2092560\/to-byl-jen-vtip-pruvodce-slovni-obranou-proti-shazovani-zesmesnovani-a-manipulaci\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>To byl jen vtip&#8230;<\/em><\/a><em>!<\/em> V\u00a0t\u00e9 v\u00e1s\u00a0tv\u016frci projektu <a href=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/v\/1561131\/moderni-sebeobrana\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Modern\u00ed sebeobrana<\/em><\/a>\u00a0Pavel a Jasm\u00edna Houdek\u00a0nau\u010d\u00ed, jak si nenechat l\u00edbit nevhodn\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky ani shazov\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 na pracovi\u0161ti i mimo n\u011bj. P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si uk\u00e1zku.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sle\u010dna Ani\u010dka a pan doktor Nov\u00e1k<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jste d\u00e1vno dosp\u011bl\u00e1 \u017eena s kari\u00e9rn\u00edmi \u00fasp\u011bchy a postaven\u00edm, ale v pr\u00e1ci v\u00e1s oslovuj\u00ed zdrobn\u011blinou va\u0161eho k\u0159estn\u00edho jm\u00e9na? M\u00e1te PhD. titul, ale kdy\u017e v\u00e1s seznamuj\u00ed s obchodn\u00edmi partnery, p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed v\u00e1s jako Ani\u010dku, zat\u00edmco va\u0161eho mlad\u0161\u00edho a juniorn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho kolegu jako doktora Nov\u00e1ka?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tohle je naprosto b\u011b\u017en\u00e1 realita. \u017deny jsou i ve form\u00e1ln\u00edm styku, na pracovi\u0161ti nebo ve ve\u0159ejn\u00e9 sf\u00e9\u0159e, daleko \u010dast\u011bji oslovov\u00e1ny k\u0159estn\u00edm jm\u00e9nem. Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1me si t\u0159eba na debatu Budoucnost bez liberalismu, kde byla v panelu mezi \u010dty\u0159mi dal\u0161\u00edmi mu\u017ei jedinou hostkou Anna \u0160abatov\u00e1. Zat\u00edmco ona oslovovala mu\u017ee p\u0159\u00edjmen\u00edm, oni ji bez v\u00fdjimky oslovovali Ani\u010dko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nikoho by p\u0159itom ani nenapadlo naz\u00fdvat v pracovn\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00ed mu\u017ee \u201ePet\u0159\u00edkem\u201c. Pouh\u00e1 p\u0159edstava toho, jak nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00e1 \u017eena oslovuje sv\u00e9ho pod\u0159\u00edzen\u00e9ho Pet\u0159\u00edku, v n\u00e1s okam\u017eit\u011b vzbuzuje dojem, \u017ee jde o poni\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed a \u0161ikanu. Obr\u00e1cen\u011b to ale zjevn\u011b neplat\u00ed \u2013 zdrobn\u011blinami toti\u017e spousta mu\u017e\u016f v\u00a0pracovn\u00edm styku \u017eeny b\u011b\u017en\u011b oslovuje. Dost by n\u00e1s zaj\u00edmalo, jak by kup\u0159\u00edkladu pan Petr Drul\u00e1k, \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edk zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9ho panelu, reagoval, kdyby jej Anna \u0160abatov\u00e1 v debat\u011b oslovila jako Pet\u0159\u00edka\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Podle pr\u016fzkumu Sv\u011btov\u00e9ho ekonomick\u00e9ho f\u00f3ra \u017eeny \u010dty\u0159ikr\u00e1t \u010dast\u011bji ne\u017e mu\u017ei hl\u00e1s\u00ed, \u017ee byly n\u011bkdy pova\u017eov\u00e1ny za m\u00e9n\u011b kompetentn\u00ed kv\u016fli sv\u00e9mu pohlav\u00ed (23 % \u017een oproti 6 % mu\u017e\u016f). Na tom se pod\u00edl\u00ed i \u010dasto poni\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed formy oslovov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak\u00fdmi jsou pr\u00e1v\u011b zdrobn\u011bliny, kter\u00e9 zpochyb\u0148uj\u00ed profesionalitu \u017een a zvy\u0161uj\u00ed nerovnost na pracovi\u0161ti. 16 % \u017een se setkalo s opakovan\u00fdmi drobn\u00fdmi nar\u00e1\u017ekami na sv\u00e9 pohlav\u00ed, co\u017e m\u011blo p\u0159\u00edm\u00fd dopad na jejich postaven\u00ed v pracovn\u00edm t\u00fdmu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Je naprosto b\u011b\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee mlad\u00e9 nebo neprovdan\u00e9 \u017eeny ozna\u010dujeme jako sle\u010dny. Mlad\u00e9 nebo svobodn\u00e9 mu\u017ee ale ozna\u010dujeme zkr\u00e1tka jen jako mu\u017ee, nikoliv t\u0159eba jako ml\u00e1dence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zda je mu\u017e svobodn\u00fd, nebo \u017eenat\u00fd, n\u00e1s o\u010dividn\u011b nezaj\u00edm\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zat\u00edmco u \u017eeny to ovliv\u0148uje, jak ji oslovujeme \u2013 a tud\u00ed\u017e samoz\u0159ejm\u011b i to, jak ji vn\u00edm\u00e1me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Skupinu koleg\u016f ozna\u010d\u00edme nejsp\u00ed\u0161e za kolegy, mo\u017en\u00e1 za chlapy. Skupinu kolegy\u0148 ale docela b\u011b\u017en\u011b ozna\u010d\u00edme za holky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zkuste si sami \u0159\u00edct v\u011bty \u201eKolegov\u00e9 v kancel\u00e1\u0159i \u0159\u00edkali\u2026\u201c a \u201eHolky v kancel\u00e1\u0159i \u0159\u00edkaly\u2026\u201c. Koho si p\u0159edstav\u00edte v prvn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b a koho ve druh\u00e9m? P\u0159edstav\u00edte si ve druh\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b kancel\u00e1\u0159 plnou in\u017een\u00fdrek? Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b \u017ee ne. A p\u0159esto skupinu in\u017een\u00fdrek n\u011bkdo \u2013 a zejm\u00e9na mu\u017e \u2013 jako holky ozna\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zastavme se na chv\u00edli nad tradi\u010dn\u00edm osloven\u00edm \u0159e\u010dn\u00edk\u016f a moder\u00e1tor\u016f: \u201eV\u00e1\u017een\u00ed p\u00e1nov\u00e9 a mil\u00e9 d\u00e1my\u201c. Vid\u00edte, co takov\u00e9 osloven\u00ed \u0159\u00edk\u00e1? D\u00e1my, tedy \u017eeny, jsou \u201emil\u00e9\u201c. Tedy usm\u011bvav\u00e9 a p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9, ale rozhodn\u011b ne v\u00e1\u017een\u00e9. V\u00e1\u017een\u00ed, v\u00e1\u017en\u00ed, jejich\u017e slovo m\u00e1 v\u00e1hu, jsou p\u00e1nov\u00e9, tedy mu\u017ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tohle v\u0161echno jsou p\u0159\u00edklady toho, jak b\u011b\u017en\u011b a sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u00famysln\u011b pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me sexistick\u00fd jazyk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Te\u010f se ale p\u0159esu\u0148me k tomu, \u017ee mnoz\u00ed mu\u017ei pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed sexistick\u00fd jazyk \u00famysln\u011b \u2013 k z\u00edsk\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159evahy a shozen\u00ed sv\u00e9 oponentky v konverzaci. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed tak \u010din\u00ed b\u011b\u017en\u011b a rutinn\u011b. Je pro n\u011b za\u017eitou prax\u00ed, \u017ee \u017een\u00e1m tykaj\u00ed, pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed ji\u017e zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 zdrobn\u011bliny nebo jin\u00e9 formy famili\u00e1rn\u00edho osloven\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-1 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<p>Jin\u00ed vyt\u00e1hnou sexistick\u00e1 slov\u00ed\u010dka v situaci, kdy jim doch\u00e1zej\u00ed argumenty. Za\u010dnou v\u00e1s oslovovat \u201ehol\u010di\u010dko\u201c, \u201ezlato\u201c a podobn\u011b, a to i p\u0159es to, \u017ee jste t\u0159eba podobn\u00e9ho v\u011bku \u2013 a doufaj\u00ed, \u017ee t\u00edm z\u00edskaj\u00ed moc a autoritu. Sna\u017e\u00ed se dovolat sv\u00e9ho statusu \u201epatriarchy\u201c, kter\u00fd p\u0159eci z principu v\u011bci mus\u00ed m\u00edt pravdu.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"507\" height=\"792\" src=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snimek-obrazovky-2025-05-21-144424.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-237129\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snimek-obrazovky-2025-05-21-144424.png 507w, https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snimek-obrazovky-2025-05-21-144424-192x300.png 192w, https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snimek-obrazovky-2025-05-21-144424-333x520.png 333w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 507px) 100vw, 507px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Knihu dopl\u0148uj\u00ed trefn\u00e9 ilustrace Marie K\u00f6nig Dudziakov\u00e9.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>A t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 nikomu to nep\u0159ijde divn\u00e9. V\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed bude toho n\u00e1zoru, \u017ee je to roztomil\u00e9 a spr\u00e1vn\u00e9. \u017de se to tak d\u011blalo v\u017edycky\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Inu, je \u010das se pod\u00edvat na to, co to podprahov\u011b implikuje, a skoncovat s t\u00edm!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-2 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em>Co s t\u00edm: tipy pro \u017eeny<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"514\" height=\"551\" src=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jasmina-Houdek_ilustrace.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-237125\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jasmina-Houdek_ilustrace.png 514w, https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jasmina-Houdek_ilustrace-280x300.png 280w, https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jasmina-Houdek_ilustrace-485x520.png 485w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 514px) 100vw, 514px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>P\u0159estat hr\u00e1t hru na \u201emilou d\u00e1mu\u201c je samoz\u0159ejm\u011b neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9. Jakmile se ohrad\u00edte \u2013 t\u0159eba proti osloven\u00ed \u201emil\u00e1 d\u00e1ma\u201c, hned budete pova\u017eov\u00e1na za pot\u00ed\u017eistku. Za tu, kter\u00e1 \u0159e\u0161\u00ed nesmysly, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b sem tah\u00e1 americk\u00e9 man\u00fdry a u\u017e u\u017e se chyst\u00e1 mu\u017ee \u017ealovat za jen trochu del\u0161\u00ed pohled.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Jedna z mo\u017enost\u00ed, jak na absurditu t\u011bchto osloven\u00ed upozornit, je za\u010d\u00edt je pou\u017e\u00edvat tak\u00e9. Zcela \u00famysln\u011b, ale genderov\u011b naopak. Pokud v\u00e1s kolega za\u010dne oslovovat Ani\u010dko, za\u010dn\u011bte mu \u0159\u00edkat Pet\u0159\u00edku. Pokud infantiln\u00ed jazyk nepou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 \u00famysln\u011b, s c\u00edlem v\u00e1s shodit, pak mu to ihned dojde a sv\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed nech\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Stejn\u011b tak m\u016f\u017eete zkusit sv\u00e9 kolegy oslovovat \u201emil\u00ed p\u00e1nov\u00e9 a v\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 d\u00e1my\u201c. Je to drobn\u00e1 subverze, kter\u00e1 ale m\u016f\u017ee vn\u00edmav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed lidi p\u0159im\u011bt k tomu, aby se zamysleli a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b v\u00edc p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli o slovech, kter\u00e1 vol\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a tvrd\u0161\u00ed mo\u017enost\u00ed je se proti infantiln\u00edmu oslovov\u00e1n\u00ed ohradit a vy\u017eadovat stejn\u00e9 form\u00e1ty oslovov\u00e1n\u00ed, jak\u00e9 n\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed va\u0161im koleg\u016fm. Mus\u00edte ale po\u010d\u00edtat s t\u00edm, \u017ee druh\u00e1 strana na to bude reagovat podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u011b. Ilustrativn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edkladem m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt histori\u010dka Anna H\u00e1jkov\u00e1. Ta se v&nbsp;roce 2020 na Twitteru ohradila proti tomu, jak ji oslovil moder\u00e1tor Martin Veselovsk\u00fd, a opravila ho, \u017ee je doktorka H\u00e1jkov\u00e1 (v odpov\u011bdi napsala jen: \u201edoktorko\u201c H\u00e1jkov\u00e1). M\u00ed\u0159ila t\u00edm na to, \u017ee pan Veselovsk\u00fd jin\u00e9ho mu\u017ee oslovoval jako \u201edoktora\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Tento nevinn\u00fd tweet spustil doslova twitterovou bou\u0159i, kdy se na doktorku H\u00e1jkovou sesypaly stovky mu\u017e\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed se j\u00ed vysm\u00edvali, zesm\u011b\u0161\u0148ovali ji a poni\u017eovali.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Kdy\u017e odhl\u00e9dneme od soci\u00e1ln\u00edch s\u00edt\u00ed, b\u00fdv\u00e1 nicm\u00e9n\u011b reakce protistrany velmi dobr\u00fdm ukazatelem jej\u00ed motivace. Je \u2013 nebo by alespo\u0148 m\u011blo \u2013 b\u00fdt b\u011b\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee pokud v\u00e1s n\u011bkdo oprav\u00ed, omluv\u00edte se a za\u010dnete pou\u017e\u00edvat takov\u00e9 osloven\u00ed, kter\u00e9 dan\u00e1 osoba vy\u017eaduje. Pokud v\u00e1s druh\u00e1 strana za\u010dne poni\u017eovat, m\u016f\u017eete si b\u00fdt skoro jist\u00ed, \u017ee p\u016fvodn\u00ed osloven\u00ed bylo pou\u017eito c\u00edlen\u011b. A tud\u00ed\u017e bylo to, \u017ee jste se ohradili, zcela na m\u00edst\u011b.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Pokud je famili\u00e1rn\u00ed osloven\u00ed pou\u017eito v debat\u011b, aby mu\u017e z\u00edskal p\u0159evahu, lze zvolit i strategii p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9 konfrontace. M\u016f\u017eete se na rovinu zeptat, zda, pokud v\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 \u201ehol\u010di\u010dko\u201c, tak vy mu m\u00e1te \u0159\u00edkat \u201echlape\u010dku\u201c.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Pou\u017e\u00edt m\u016f\u017eete i humor. Jedna z \u017een, kter\u00e9 se to stalo, n\u00e1m na Instagram napsala, \u017ee vyt\u00e1hla z kapsy telefon, p\u0159edst\u00edrala telefon\u00e1t a \u0159ekla: \u201eDobr\u00fd den, pan\u00ed doktorko, cht\u011bla jsem v\u00e1m pod\u011bkovat za ten botox. Perfektn\u011b funguje, lidi si mysl\u00ed, \u017ee chod\u00edm zase do \u0161kolky, a \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed mi hol\u010di\u010dko.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-3 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em>Co s t\u00edm: tipy pro mu\u017ee<\/em><\/strong><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"671\" height=\"581\" src=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Pavel-Houdek_ilustrace.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-237126\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Pavel-Houdek_ilustrace.png 671w, https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Pavel-Houdek_ilustrace-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Pavel-Houdek_ilustrace-600x520.png 600w, https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Pavel-Houdek_ilustrace-601x520.png 601w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 671px) 100vw, 671px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ne\u0159\u00edkejte ciz\u00edm \u017een\u00e1m nebo kolegyn\u00edm \u201ehol\u010di\u010dko\u201c, \u201ezlato\u201c ani \u201esle\u010dno\u201c. Tak jednoduch\u00e9 to je. A t\u00edm bychom mohli skon\u010dit, \u017ee? Nane\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed to nesta\u010d\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>U\u017e zase to bude vy\u017eadovat n\u011bjakou pr\u00e1ci. Sledov\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama. Pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te p\u0159i oslovov\u00e1n\u00ed kolegy\u0148 \u010dast\u011bji k\u0159estn\u00ed jm\u00e9na ne\u017e p\u0159i oslovov\u00e1n\u00ed mu\u017esk\u00fdch koleg\u016f? \u010c\u00edm je to zp\u016fsoben\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>M\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt legitimn\u00ed, proto\u017ee kolegyn\u011b zn\u00e1te v\u00fdrazn\u011b d\u00e9le, ale tak\u00e9 to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt genderov\u00fd bias, kter\u00fd si ani neuv\u011bdomujete. Zkuste se chv\u00edli sledovat a up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b se zamyslet a p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b pak zp\u016fsob sv\u00e9ho vyjad\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed upravit.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Pokud si nejste jist\u00ed, nen\u00ed nic snadn\u011bj\u0161\u00edho ne\u017e se zeptat.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>My se t\u0159eba na za\u010d\u00e1tku na\u0161ich workshop\u016f ka\u017ed\u00e9ho pt\u00e1me, jak mu\/j\u00ed \u0159\u00edkat \u2013 vyhneme se tak jak\u00fdmkoliv omyl\u016fm.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Je toti\u017e dost dob\u0159e mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee jedna \u017eena jm\u00e9nem Anna bude osloven\u00ed \u201eAni\u010dka\u201c vy\u017eadovat (t\u0159eba proto, \u017ee j\u00ed Anna p\u0159ijde moc tvrd\u00e9) a jin\u00e1 ho bude odm\u00edtat, proto\u017ee j\u00ed Ani\u010dka p\u0159ijde infantiln\u00ed. Oboj\u00ed je pln\u011b legitimn\u00ed a zcela v po\u0159\u00e1dku.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>I tady v\u0161ak plat\u00ed, \u017ee ned\u011blat to nesta\u010d\u00ed. Ostatn\u00ed mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed takov\u00fdto jazyk pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed a zneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed, spol\u00e9haj\u00ed na to, \u017ee<\/em> <em>jejich okol\u00ed bude ml\u010det. Spol\u00e9haj\u00ed na to, \u017ee pokud se doty\u010dn\u00e1 \u017eena ozve, snadno z n\u00ed u\u010din\u00ed hysterku a tu, kter\u00e1 p\u0159eci nech\u00e1pe n\u00e1\u0161 hezk\u00fd \u010desk\u00fd laskav\u00fd humor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ano, h\u00e1d\u00e1te spr\u00e1vn\u011b \u2013 pokud to sami ned\u011bl\u00e1te, je na \u010dase, abyste ve sv\u00e9m okol\u00ed aktivn\u011b budovali a podporovali atmosf\u00e9ru, kter\u00e1 pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed sexistick\u00e9ho jazyka potla\u010duje. Jak toho m\u016f\u017eete doc\u00edlit?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>M\u016f\u017eete si o tom s ostatn\u00edmi mu\u017ei promluvit. Neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee m\u00e1te svolat form\u00e1ln\u00ed meeting, kter\u00fd se bude jmenovat \u201egenderov\u011b korektn\u00ed jazyk\u201c, a sebe prohl\u00e1sit za genderov\u00e9ho experta jako v seri\u00e1lu Kancl. M\u016f\u017ee to znamenat t\u0159eba jen to, \u017ee mezi \u0159e\u010d\u00ed s kolegou poznamen\u00e1te: \u201eHele, nen\u00ed divn\u00fd, jak Ani\u010dku oslovuje\u0161 Ani\u010dka? Nev\u0161iml jsem si, \u017ee bys komukoliv z t\u00fdmu \u0159\u00edkal t\u0159eba Pet\u0159\u00ed\u010dku.\u201c Nemus\u00edte se o tom h\u00e1dat nebo se s t\u00edm druh\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edt, sta\u010d\u00ed se zeptat a nechat kolegu p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b i vy, jako mu\u017e, se m\u016f\u017eete pustit do drobn\u00e9 subverze a p\u0159ehazovat tradi\u010dn\u00ed osloven\u00ed typu \u201ev\u00e1\u017een\u00e9 d\u00e1my, mil\u00ed p\u00e1nov\u00e9\u201c a podobn\u011b. Pokud tohle ud\u011bl\u00e1te, nemus\u00edte se b\u00e1t, \u017ee v\u00e1s n\u011bkdo p\u0159\u00edmo konfrontuje. Nanejv\u00fd\u0161 si bude myslet, \u017ee jste se spletl. Ale op\u011bt ho to m\u016f\u017ee pob\u00eddnout za\u010d\u00edt o tom p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-1 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/v\/2092560\/to-byl-jen-vtip-pruvodce-slovni-obranou-proti-shazovani-zesmesnovani-a-manipulaci\">To byl jen vtip&#8230;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te nar\u00e1\u017eky nebo nevhodn\u00e9 \u201evtipy\u201c, ale vtipn\u00e1 odpov\u011b\u010f v\u00e1s napadne a\u017e po deseti minut\u00e1ch? C\u00edt\u00edte, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 situace v\u00e1s svazuj\u00ed a nut\u00ed ml\u010det, i kdy\u017e byste se cht\u011bli ozvat? Potom je tu pr\u00e1v\u011b pro v\u00e1s p\u0159\u00edru\u010dka\u00a0To byl jen vtip&#8230;! V\u00a0t\u00e9 v\u00e1s\u00a0tv\u016frci projektu Modern\u00ed sebeobrana\u00a0Pavel a Jasm\u00edna Houdek\u00a0nau\u010d\u00ed, jak si nenechat l\u00edbit nevhodn\u00e9 pozn\u00e1mky ani shazov\u00e1n\u00ed \u2013 na pracovi\u0161ti i mimo n\u011bj. P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si uk\u00e1zku.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":237128,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[21019],"tags":[52],"class_list":["post-237124","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ukazky","tag-kniha"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237124","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=237124"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/237124\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/237128"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=237124"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=237124"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=237124"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}