Mezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy fascinuj\u00ed lidi prost\u011b odjak\u017eiva. Sna\u017e\u00edme se pochopit, jak funguj\u00ed a leckdy doch\u00e1z\u00edme k\u00a0tomu, \u017ee na to na\u0161e schopnosti nesta\u010d\u00ed. P\u0159ed \u010dtrn\u00e1cti lety se ale man\u017eel\u00e9 Allan a Barbara Peasovi rozhodli napsat knihu, ve kter\u00e9 by p\u0159edali z\u00e1v\u011bry sv\u00e9ho zkoum\u00e1n\u00ed partnersk\u00e9ho sou\u017eit\u00ed. Kniha dostala n\u00e1zev, kter\u00fd mnoh\u00e9 provokoval \u2013 Pro\u010d mu\u017ei neposlouchaj\u00ed a \u017eeny neum\u00ed \u010d\u00edst v\u00a0map\u00e1ch. Nav\u00e1zali na pr\u00e1ci Dr. Johna Graye, kter\u00fd je zn\u00e1m i u n\u00e1s – nap\u0159\u00edklad Mu\u017ei jsou z\u00a0Marsu, \u017eeny z\u00a0Venu\u0161e\u201c nebo \u201eMars a Venu\u0161e si spolu za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed\u201c. Man\u017eel\u00e9 Peasovi pokra\u010duj\u00ed v\u00a0jeho pr\u00e1ci a stali se d\u016fstojn\u00fdmi n\u00e1stupci tohoto klasika partnersk\u00e9 literatury.<\/p>\n
Stal se z\u00a0n\u00ed velk\u00fd hit a podle ob\u00e1lky nov\u00e9ho \u010desk\u00e9ho vyd\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 vych\u00e1z\u00ed pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f, se prodalo p\u0159es 12 milion\u016f v\u00fdtisk\u016f. Bylo to jen t\u00edm, \u017ee lid\u00e9 hledali n\u00e1vod, jak p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt sv\u00e9 vztahy? Jak jim porozum\u011bt? Nejen t\u00edm.<\/p>\n
Pro\u010d mu\u017ei neposlouchaj\u00ed a \u017eeny neum\u00ed \u010d\u00edst v\u00a0map\u00e1ch je toti\u017e v\u00edc ne\u017e jenom manu\u00e1lem. Je odleh\u010den\u00fdm pohledem na ka\u017edodenn\u00ed situace, o vztaz\u00edch p\u00ed\u0161e vtipn\u011b a bez psychologick\u00fdch kli\u0161\u00e9. \u00a0Ve dvan\u00e1cti kapitol\u00e1ch auto\u0159i p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed kompletn\u00ed anal\u00fdzu odli\u0161nost\u00ed v\u00a0chov\u00e1n\u00ed mu\u017e\u016f a \u017een v\u00a0r\u016fzn\u00fdch oblastech, jako je komunikace, prostorov\u00e9 vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed nebo uva\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed. Popisuj\u00ed tak\u00e9 rozd\u00edly ve vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed sexuality, flirtov\u00e1n\u00ed a kone\u010dn\u011b i man\u017eelstv\u00ed. V\u0161echny tyto oblasti auto\u0159i popisuj\u00ed s\u00a0pat\u0159i\u010dn\u00fdm uveden\u00edm souvislost\u00ed \u2013 t\u0159eba v\u00a0kapitole v\u011bnuj\u00edc\u00ed se promiskuit\u011b a polygamii vysv\u011btluj\u00ed, \u017ee v\u00a0d\u00e1vn\u00fdch dob\u00e1ch to bylo logickou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u017eivota \u2013 a \u017ee mu\u017ei maj\u00ed tuto vlastnost zabudovanou v\u00a0genech.<\/p>\n
Ani mu\u017ee, ani \u017eeny kniha nepovy\u0161uje a jejich vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 sou\u017eit\u00ed popisuje s\u00a0hravost\u00ed a lehkost\u00ed. Nem\u00e1 za \u00fakol nau\u010dit v\u00e1s p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt pades\u00e1t let vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho svazku, ale m\u016f\u017eete d\u00edky n\u00ed pochopit, \u017ee pokud \u017eena neum\u00ed \u010d\u00edst v\u00a0map\u011b, rozhodn\u011b za to nem\u016f\u017ee, proto\u017ee jej\u00ed mozek je naprogramov\u00e1n jinak. A to, \u017ee mu\u017e neposlouch\u00e1, kdy\u017e \u017eena mluv\u00ed, je zase dan\u00e9 t\u00edm, \u017ee historick\u00e9 a vrozen\u00e9 pot\u0159eby mu\u017e\u016f byly uzp\u016fsobeny pro jin\u00e9 \u00fa\u010dely.<\/p>\n
Mezi knihami, kter\u00e9 se tomuto t\u00e9matu v\u011bnuj\u00ed, je tato jednou z\u00a0t\u011bch nejlep\u0161\u00edch. P\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dte se ale sami.<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mezilidsk\u00e9, nota bene partnersk\u00e9, vztahy fascinuj\u00ed lidi snad od t\u00e9 doby, co jeskynn\u00ed \u017eena vynadala sv\u00e9mu jeskynn\u00edmu mu\u017ei, \u017ee ten mamut, kter\u00e9ho on ulovil, byl mnohem men\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e mamut, kter\u00e9ho ulovil jeskynn\u00ed mu\u017e odvedle.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-recenze"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2022\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}