{"id":17375,"date":"2022-09-29T13:28:11","date_gmt":"2022-09-29T11:28:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=17375"},"modified":"2022-09-29T13:28:11","modified_gmt":"2022-09-29T11:28:11","slug":"jan-mendel-david-toegel-opovazliva-drzost-byt-sam-sebou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/recenze\/jan-mendel-david-toegel-opovazliva-drzost-byt-sam-sebou\/","title":{"rendered":"Jan Mend\u011bl, David Toegel \u2013 Opov\u00e1\u017eliv\u00e1 drzost b\u00fdt s\u00e1m sebou"},"content":{"rendered":"

Snadno se \u0159ekne, abychom se nau\u010dili b\u00fdt sami sebou. Zapomenout na v\u0161e, co n\u00e1m kdo kdy \u0159\u00edkal, a b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi. Ps\u00e1t si sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e a nenechat se omezovat \u010di zviklat zku\u0161enostmi a p\u0159edsudky jin\u00fdch lid\u00ed.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Je pot\u0159eba ud\u011blat prvn\u00ed krok, proto\u017ee nikdo jin\u00fd ho za n\u00e1s neud\u011bl\u00e1. To je zn\u00e1m\u00e1 pravda. Nen\u00ed to ale nic bolestn\u00e9ho nebo traumatizuj\u00edc\u00edho. Naopak, \u010dlov\u011bku se velmi ulev\u00ed. Kdysi jsem vid\u011bla malou kresbu. Zobrazovala \u010dlov\u011bka, jak stoj\u00ed na pl\u00e1\u017ei u obrovsk\u00e9ho oce\u00e1nu. T\u0159ese se, pot\u00ed, pl\u00e1\u010de a m\u00e1 strach, proto\u017ee oce\u00e1n p\u0159ed n\u00edm je pln\u00fd \u017eralok\u016f. Boj\u00ed se, \u017ee ho nedok\u00e1\u017ee ve sv\u00e9 lo\u010fce p\u0159eplout. \u017draloci se ji\u017e nemohou do\u010dkat, a\u017e se lo\u010fka zhoupne v\u00edc, on spadne do vody a poslou\u017e\u00ed jim jako sva\u010dinka. Ve skute\u010dnosti je v\u0161ak ten stejn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk pouze na okraji mal\u00e9 lou\u017ee, kterou zvl\u00e1dne hrav\u011b p\u0159ekro\u010dit. V\u016fbec se nenamo\u010d\u00ed. Je jen na jeho vlastn\u00edm v\u00fdb\u011bru, rozhodnut\u00ed, zda se bude stresovat z n\u011b\u010deho, co vlastn\u011b v\u016fbec neexistuje. Jen si sami vzpome\u0148te, kolikr\u00e1t se v\u00e1m n\u011bco podobn\u00e9ho stalo? Kdy m\u011bl strach velk\u00e9 o\u010di a za vte\u0159inu bylo v\u0161e vy\u0159e\u0161eno, ale vy jste obavami z nezdaru promrhali tolik \u010dasu, kter\u00fd jste mohli v\u011bnovat n\u011b\u010demu kr\u00e1sn\u00e9mu? U\u017e to nen\u00ed pot\u0159eba znovu opakovat! Konec konc\u016f, nad\u00e1vat si m\u016f\u017eeme p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b pozd\u011bji. I kdy\u017e to je tak\u00e9 hloupost. Snaha se cen\u00ed a za tu bychom se m\u011bli sp\u00ed\u0161 odm\u011bnit!<\/p>\n

Nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed jsou vzpom\u00ednky, kter\u00e9 \u010dasto b\u00fdvaj\u00ed ulo\u017eeny v na\u0161ich emoc\u00edch. I kdy\u017e si v\u011bdom\u011b na ur\u010dit\u00e9 ud\u00e1losti nepamatujeme, na\u0161e mysl n\u00e1m prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm emoc\u00ed d\u00e1v\u00e1 zn\u00e1t, co jsme za\u017eili.<\/p>\n

Dal\u0161\u00edm z mnoha zaj\u00edmav\u00fdch t\u00e9mat jsou autority. Usm\u011br\u0148uj\u00ed n\u00e1s, pom\u00e1haj\u00ed n\u00e1m nal\u00e9zat dal\u0161\u00ed cesty nebo se naopak dr\u017eet jen v dan\u00fdch mantinelech? Bohu\u017eel \u010dasto je to druh\u00e1 varianta, a to bez mo\u017enosti hranice posouvat. Ov\u0161em zn\u00e1m\u00fdmi osobnostmi se st\u00e1vaj\u00ed lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se odli\u0161uj\u00ed. Ti, kte\u0159\u00ed ne\u0161li vy\u0161lapanou cesti\u010dkou, ale razili si svou vlastn\u00ed cestu. \u010casto opravdu z\u0159\u00eddka zmi\u0148ovan\u00fdm strd\u00edm a hlo\u017e\u00edm. Mimochodem, hlo\u017einky jsou velmi l\u00e9\u010div\u00e9 a zrovna je obdob\u00ed jejich sklizn\u011b, ale to je jen takov\u00e1 mal\u00e1 informace bokem.<\/p>\n

Pro\u010d se neust\u00e1le zpochyb\u0148ovat, sni\u017eovat svou hodnotu?<\/p>\n

Pro\u010d se ob\u00e1vat, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1pad bude hor\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e n\u00e1pad toho druh\u00e9ho? Chce to m\u00edt v\u00edru v sebe sama a zdrav\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m umo\u017en\u00ed d\u00e1t \u017eivotu pocit vlastn\u00edho napln\u011bn\u00ed. Zkr\u00e1tka po\u0159\u00e1dnou \u201e\u0161\u0165\u00e1vu.\u201c<\/p>\n

Miluji autory, kte\u0159\u00ed si na nic nehraj\u00ed. Nepou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed ona zn\u00e1m\u00e1 kli\u0161\u00e9. Um\u00ed se taktn\u011b, ale up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b vyj\u00e1d\u0159it, a to t\u0159eba i k sou\u010dasn\u00e9 situaci ve sv\u011bt\u011b, a\u0165 u\u017e se to t\u00fdk\u00e1 \u010dehokoliv. Jen \u010dlov\u011bku, kter\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee b\u00fdt zcela up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd m\u016f\u017eeme v\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee to s n\u00e1mi mysl\u00ed dob\u0159e. O to je lep\u0161\u00ed zji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee skute\u010dn\u011b v\u00ed, jak na to.<\/p>\n

V dob\u011b, kdy se spousta z n\u00e1s za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 ztr\u00e1cet v mno\u017estv\u00ed po\u017eadavk\u016f, vyhl\u00e1\u0161ek, na\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed, nov\u00fdch z\u00e1kon\u016f a jejich novel, p\u0159edpis\u016f, n\u00e1rok\u016f na na\u0161e chov\u00e1n\u00ed, vystupov\u00e1n\u00ed, vzhled, ur\u010dit\u00fd typ stravov\u00e1n\u00ed, vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed atd., je ten nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed \u010das opov\u00e1\u017eit se b\u00fdt znovu s\u00e1m sebou.<\/p>\n

P\u0159eji v\u0161em \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm, aby jim kniha Opov\u00e1\u017eliv\u00e1 drzost b\u00fdt s\u00e1m sebou <\/a><\/strong> od Jana Mend\u011bla<\/a><\/strong> a Davida Toegela<\/a><\/strong> pomohla vr\u00e1tit se k sob\u011b sam\u00fdm a oni se tak mohli posunout m\u00edlov\u00fdmi kroky kup\u0159edu ke sv\u00e9mu vlastn\u00edmu \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. U\u010dinit rozhodnut\u00ed, kter\u00e1 jste dlouho ze strachu odkl\u00e1dali. Kniha Opov\u00e1\u017eliv\u00e1 drzost b\u00fdt s\u00e1m sebou rozhodn\u011b stoj\u00ed za p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed!<\/p>\n

Autorkou recenze je Eva Mare\u0161ov\u00e1.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Snadno se \u0159ekne, abychom se nau\u010dili b\u00fdt sami sebou. Zapomenout na v\u0161e, co n\u00e1m kdo kdy \u0159\u00edkal, a b\u00fdt \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi. Ps\u00e1t si sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e a nenechat se omezovat \u010di […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":17377,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[21037,21647,21648,18341],"class_list":["post-17375","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-recenze","tag-motivace","tag-naucna-literatura","tag-osobni-rozvoj","tag-recenze"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17375","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17375"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17375\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17377"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17375"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17375"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17375"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}