{"id":172666,"date":"2023-08-24T16:42:51","date_gmt":"2023-08-24T14:42:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=172666"},"modified":"2023-08-29T09:38:09","modified_gmt":"2023-08-29T07:38:09","slug":"blanka-mala-rozhovor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/magazin-luxor\/blanka-mala-rozhovor\/","title":{"rendered":"Opustila v\u0161e a na\u0161la radost ze \u017eivota v nov\u00e9 zemi: rozhovor s autorkou Blankou Malou"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Neb\u00e1la se zm\u011bnit sv\u016fj \u017eivot a opustit v\u0161e nefunk\u010dn\u00ed, aby na\u0161la novou l\u00e1sku a radost ze \u017eivota v jin\u00e9 zemi. A sv\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh te\u010f sd\u00edl\u00ed v autobiografick\u00e9m rom\u00e1nu L\u00e1ska ve \u0161pi\u010dce italsk\u00e9 boty<\/em><\/a>, kter\u00fd u \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f skl\u00edz\u00ed up\u0159\u00edmn\u00e9 nad\u0161en\u00ed. P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si rozhovor s autorkou Blankou Malou pro Magaz\u00edn LUXOR<\/em>. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e1ska ve \u0161pi\u010dce italsk\u00e9 boty<\/em><\/a> je Va\u0161e velmi \u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u00e1 prvotina. Kdy V\u00e1s napadlo sepsat sv\u016fj \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nem\u011bla jsem ambice ps\u00e1t knihy ani se st\u00e1t spisovatelkou. O sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b jsem tak\u00e9 necht\u011bla sv\u011btu nic sd\u011blovat. Ale se\u0161lo se to tak n\u011bjak n\u00e1hodou\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Po m\u00e9m odchodu do It\u00e1lie byl jedn\u00edm z komunika\u010dn\u00edch kan\u00e1l\u016f pro m\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1tele a zn\u00e1m\u00e9 Facebook. Tam jsem ob\u010das napsala n\u011bjak\u00fd p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek o tom, jak se m\u00e1m a jak se na jihu It\u00e1lie \u017eije. M\u011blo to ohlasy a moji p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 mi psali, \u017ee by uv\u00edtali, kdybych zalo\u017eila sv\u016fj blog. To jsem odm\u00edtala. V polovin\u011b srpna 2022 se pod jedn\u00edm takov\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvkem na Facebooku o m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b v Kal\u00e1brii objevil koment\u00e1\u0159 typu, pro\u010d to tedy nesep\u00ed\u0161u do knihy! To, jak jsem se sezn\u00e1mila se sv\u00fdm italsk\u00fdm partnerem, co m\u011b vedlo k odchodu do nejchud\u0161\u00edho italsk\u00e9ho regionu a tak\u00e9 opustit post moder\u00e1torky ve\u0159ejnopr\u00e1vn\u00edho m\u00e9dia. Reagovala jsem na to doslova slovy: \u201eKniha? To je nesmysl. Kdo by to pros\u00edm v\u00e1s vydal?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Napsala mi ale Marie Palen\u010d\u00e1rov\u00e1 z nakladatelstv\u00ed Kazda<\/a> s t\u00edm, \u017ee by opravdu st\u00e1lo za to m\u016fj \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh sepsat a propojila m\u011b s nakladatelem, panem V\u00e1clavem Kazdou. Vym\u011bnili jsme si p\u00e1r e-mail\u016f a v\u0161e se dalo do pohybu. V polovin\u011b \u0159\u00edjna jsme se s nakladatelem se\u0161li v \u0158\u00edm\u011b, o p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu si p\u00e1r hodin pov\u00eddali a j\u00e1 ve\u010der odj\u00ed\u017ed\u011bla z \u0158\u00edma do Kal\u00e1brie s t\u00edm, \u017ee knihu opravdu do jara nap\u00ed\u0161u ve spolupr\u00e1ci s nakladatelstv\u00edm Kazda. A tak se i stalo. Byla to na prvn\u00ed dobrou vz\u00e1jemn\u00e1 d\u016fv\u011bra, kter\u00e1 zafungovala. <\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Ale s nakladatelstv\u00edm Kazda jsem se setkala u\u017e o n\u011bco d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e jsme se poznali osobn\u011b. Prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm knih, o kter\u00e9 se mnou poslucha\u010di sout\u011b\u017eili v dopoledn\u00edm vys\u00edl\u00e1n\u00ed \u010cesk\u00e9ho rozhlasu a kter\u00e9 se mi tenkr\u00e1t moc l\u00edbily, proto\u017ee to byly kvalitn\u00ed knihy p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm o p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b a cestov\u00e1n\u00ed. Tak\u017ee s nakladatelstv\u00edm Kazda jsme si byli asi souzeni. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Pozitivn\u00ed reakce na knihu neberou konce, mus\u00edm \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee krom\u011b \u010dtiv\u00e9 formy se ve Va\u0161em p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu tak trochu najde ka\u017ed\u00e1 \u017eena, byl to z\u00e1m\u011br, nebo sp\u00ed\u0161 je to prost\u011b \u017eivot a my v\u0161echny m\u00e1me podobn\u00e9 pochybnosti, starosti i radosti\u2026?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nebyl v tom z\u00e1m\u011br a reakce tolika \u017een m\u011b samotnou p\u0159ekvapily. Asi zafungovalo to, \u017ee jsem se sna\u017eila nic nep\u0159ikr\u00e1\u0161lovat a ps\u00e1t o v\u011bcech a situac\u00edch, kter\u00e9 se n\u00e1m \u017een\u00e1m, matk\u00e1m a man\u017eelk\u00e1m d\u011bj\u00ed opravdu tak, jak je \u017eivot p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed. Nikdo z n\u00e1s p\u0159ece nepl\u00e1nuje t\u0159ikr\u00e1t se vd\u00e1t a t\u0159ikr\u00e1t se rozv\u00e9st. A p\u0159esto se to st\u00e1v\u00e1. Sedla jsem si k po\u010d\u00edta\u010di a bylo to tak, jako bych to vykl\u00e1dala sv\u00e9 kamar\u00e1dce, se kterou jsem se od z\u00e1kladky nevid\u011bla a kter\u00e1 o m\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b nic nev\u00ed a chce to v\u0161echno povypr\u00e1v\u011bt.  A tak trochu to byl tak\u00e9 rozhovor s m\u00fdm vnit\u0159n\u00edm d\u00edt\u011btem, kter\u00e9 mi pomohlo uzdravit sebe sama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kniha nen\u00ed jen milostn\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhem, ale je i velmi inspirativn\u00ed. Ve zral\u00e9m v\u011bku jste se rozhodla opustit v\u0161e nefunk\u010dn\u00ed a za\u010d\u00edt znovu, d\u00e1t \u0161anci nov\u00e9mu \u017eivotu, mu\u017ei i zemi. Kde jste vzala odvahu?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Odvaha souvisela s t\u00edm, \u017ee jsem se opravdu dostala do bodu, kde u\u017e ne\u0161lo \u017e\u00edt takov\u00fd \u017eivot, jak\u00fd jsem \u017eila. Bylo to bu\u010f a nebo, ocitla jsem se na \u017eivotn\u00ed k\u0159i\u017eovatce. Bu\u010f jsem mohla d\u00e1l setrvat v n\u011b\u010dem, co m\u011b den po dni ni\u010d\u00ed, anebo zariskovat a zm\u011bnit spoustu v\u011bc\u00ed, p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm zm\u011bnit postoj sama k sob\u011b. Jak\u00fd vztah m\u00e1me sami k sob\u011b se opravdu zrcadl\u00ed do chov\u00e1n\u00ed lid\u00ed v\u016f\u010di n\u00e1m. Za\u010dala jsem tedy u sebe a to, co n\u00e1sledovalo, bylo trochu jako v poh\u00e1dce. P\u0159ede mnou byla cesta pohodln\u00e1 a p\u0159\u00edm\u00e1, kter\u00e1 v\u00e1s zavede nejsp\u00ed\u0161 do pekel, a byla tu tak\u00e9 ta, kter\u00e1 je pln\u00e1 klest\u00ed, ale na konci kter\u00e9 je kouzeln\u00e1 babi\u010dka, kter\u00e1 pln\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed, nebo dokonce z\u00e1mek a mo\u017en\u00e1 i kr\u00e1sn\u00fd princ. Tak\u017ee j\u00e1 si vybrala tu s klest\u00edm a princem. \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Moc se mi l\u00edb\u00ed V\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivotn\u00ed postoj, a to, \u017ee by \u010dlov\u011bk nem\u011bl setrv\u00e1vat v nefunk\u010dn\u00edm vztahu, ale naopak n\u011bkdy zariskovat a j\u00edt si za sv\u00fdm. Co pomohlo V\u00e1m se rozhodnout?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rozhodnut\u00ed ud\u011blat z\u00e1sadn\u00ed zm\u011bnu ovlivnilo i to, \u017ee u\u017e jsem necht\u011bla sv\u00e9 dce\u0159i d\u00e1vat p\u0159\u00edklad v podob\u011b divadla a bezcenn\u00e9ho vztahu pro jej\u00ed dal\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot. Do man\u017eelstv\u00ed vstupujeme s nad\u011bj\u00ed, \u017ee n\u00e1\u0161 vztah p\u0159etrv\u00e1 do konce \u017eivota, a kdy\u017e to tak nen\u00ed, tak se ho sna\u017e\u00edme resuscitovat pro udr\u017een\u00ed rodiny, zvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 kdy\u017e v n\u00ed jsou d\u011bti. I j\u00e1 jsem se o to n\u011bjakou dobu pokou\u0161ela, ale pak jsem pochopila, \u017ee to nem\u00e1 smysl. Jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00e1 o tom, \u017ee pokud spolu partne\u0159i z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed jen kv\u016fli d\u011btem a t\u0159eba dlouh\u00e9 roky, m\u00e1 to negativn\u00ed dopad na v\u0161echny z\u00fa\u010dastn\u011bn\u00e9. A toho jsem n\u00e1s v\u0161echny cht\u011bla u\u0161et\u0159it. Bohu\u017eel jsem nepo\u010d\u00edtala s t\u00edm, \u017ee po takov\u00e9m kroku se od druh\u00e9 strany tak\u00e9 nemus\u00edte do\u010dkat respektu a \u00facty jako rodi\u010d, ale i to je \u017eivot a mus\u00edme se s takov\u00fdmi situacemi um\u011bt vyrovnat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e se \u010dlov\u011bk za\u010dte, m\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee se p\u0159enesl n\u011bkam na jih, dokonce je v knize uvedeno i p\u00e1r italsk\u00fdch recept\u016f. Cht\u011bla jste tak \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016fm p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eit V\u00e1mi milovanou zemi a kuchyni naplno?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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It\u00e1lie je zem\u011b, ke kter\u00e9 krom\u011b mo\u0159e, hor a kulturn\u00edch pam\u00e1tek neodmysliteln\u011b pat\u0159\u00ed i dobr\u00e1 k\u00e1va a skv\u011bl\u00e9 j\u00eddlo. Jestli\u017ee tedy popisuji ve sv\u00e9 knize It\u00e1lii, ve kter\u00e9 te\u010f \u017eiji, bez j\u00eddla a m\u00edstn\u00edch specialit se to samoz\u0159ejm\u011b neobejde. I to pat\u0159\u00ed k b\u011b\u017en\u00e9mu \u017eivotu a pro Italy je nav\u00edc j\u00eddlo \u2013 a spole\u010dn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das u n\u011bj \u2013 opravdu jejich kulturou.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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N\u00e1pad p\u0159idat p\u00e1r recept\u016f, kter\u00e9 opravdu va\u0159\u00edm a m\u00e1m je vyzkou\u0161en\u00e9, se tak nab\u00edzelo a podle ohlasu \u010dten\u00e1\u0159\u016f jsou v knize v\u00edtan\u00fdm bonusem. Moc m\u011b t\u011b\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee po p\u0159e\u010dten\u00ed knihy maj\u00ed \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky chu\u0165 koupit si prosecco a odvahu rodin\u011b naserv\u00edrovat m\u00edsto ned\u011bln\u00edho \u0159\u00edzku italsk\u00e9 kr\u00e9mov\u00e9 risotto s ch\u0159estem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd, kdo si p\u0159e\u010dte Va\u0161i knihu, tou\u017e\u00ed v\u011bd\u011bt, jak to bylo d\u00e1l\u2026 P\u00ed\u0161ete pokra\u010dovan\u00ed? Prozrad\u00edte, jak V\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh pokra\u010duje a jak se m\u00e1te dnes?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ano, pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed se nab\u00edz\u00ed, proto\u017ee ten p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh \u017eiji ka\u017ed\u00fdm dal\u0161\u00edm dnem. Ji\u017en\u00ed It\u00e1lie m\u00fdm druh\u00fdm domovem nad\u00e1le z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1, m\u00e1m se hezky a z ohlas\u016f na kn\u00ed\u017eku a zpr\u00e1v od \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ek, kter\u00e9 do Kal\u00e1brie p\u0159ij\u00ed\u017ed\u011bn\u00ed i s n\u00ed a cht\u011bj\u00ed ji podepsat, m\u00e1m velkou radost. Ta je i hnac\u00edm motorem proto, abych ve psan\u00ed pokra\u010dovala. V tuto chv\u00edli v\u00e1m mohu sl\u00edbit, \u017ee se budu ze v\u0161ech sil sna\u017eit o to, aby L\u00e1ska ve \u0161pi\u010dce italsk\u00e9 boty<\/a><\/em> m\u011bla na ja\u0159e \u201emlad\u0161\u00ed sest\u0159i\u010dku\u201c.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Jak\u00e9 knihy a auto\u0159i inspiruj\u00ed V\u00e1s?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017diji na jihu It\u00e1lie, kde se v l\u00e9t\u011b tr\u00e1v\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161ina \u010dasu venku a sp\u00e1t se chod\u00ed nejd\u0159\u00edve po p\u016flnoci. V jednu v noci, kdy chod\u00edm sp\u00e1t j\u00e1 u\u017e na kn\u00ed\u017eku opravdu n\u00e1lada nen\u00ed. Kradu si tak chvilky na \u010dten\u00ed u mo\u0159e, ale to je tady tak kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 a \u010dist\u00e9, \u017ee po p\u00e1r minut\u00e1ch kn\u00ed\u017eku odkl\u00e1d\u00e1m a u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m si rad\u011bji slan\u00e9 vody. V pl\u00e1\u017eov\u00e9 ta\u0161ce si u\u017e t\u00fdden nos\u00edm Mal\u00e9ho prince<\/em><\/a> v ital\u0161tin\u011b, kter\u00e9ho jsem objevila v bazaru knih v Tropee, sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto v n\u00ed m\u00e1 ob\u010das i Jirotk\u016fv Saturnin<\/em><\/a>, kter\u00fd m\u011b snad nikdy neomrz\u00ed, a v posledn\u00ed dob\u011b se mi l\u00edbila tetralogie Geni\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b<\/em><\/a> od Eleny Ferrante. To, co pl\u00e1nuji nad\u011blit sama sob\u011b pod strome\u010dek, je kn\u00ed\u017eka Aleny \u010cin\u010derov\u00e9 a Barbory Jaro\u0161ov\u00e9 Kinsk\u00e9 Modr\u00e1 krev<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Rozhovor vznikl pro Magaz\u00edn LUXOR a jeho autorkou je Jana Br\u00e1zdilov\u00e1. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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