{"id":17131,"date":"2022-08-22T07:48:00","date_gmt":"2022-08-22T05:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=17131"},"modified":"2023-02-01T14:07:44","modified_gmt":"2023-02-01T13:07:44","slug":"fejeton-vlastina-svatkova-a-treba-staci-mit-porad-smysl-pro-co-zit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/knizni-zajimavosti\/fejeton-vlastina-svatkova-a-treba-staci-mit-porad-smysl-pro-co-zit\/","title":{"rendered":"FEJETON: Vlastina Sv\u00e1tkov\u00e1 \u2013 A t\u0159eba sta\u010d\u00ed m\u00edt po\u0159\u00e1d smysl, pro co \u017e\u00edt \u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tak moc se soust\u0159ed\u00edme na to, aby se zm\u011bnili lid\u00e9 kolem n\u00e1s, \u017ee n\u00e1s ani nenapadne, \u017ee bychom m\u011bli za\u010d\u00edt hlavn\u011b u sebe. <\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u0159estat tla\u010dit, lp\u011bt, o\u010dek\u00e1vat, cht\u00edt n\u011bco, co nen\u00ed. P\u0159estat se vztekat, \u017ee sv\u011bt je zl\u00fd a nespravedliv\u00fd. Sv\u011bt kolem n\u00e1s se nikdy nezm\u011bn\u00ed, ale velkou zm\u011bnou m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt to, jak ho vn\u00edm\u00e1me. V\u0161echny ty t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 smutn\u00e9 v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 se d\u011bj\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9mu z n\u00e1s, bu\u010f zav\u0159ou na\u0161e srdce, nebo ho naopak otev\u0159ou doko\u0159\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

Kr\u00e1sn\u00e9 je, \u017ee m\u00e1me v\u017edy na v\u00fdb\u011br, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed je na\u0161\u00ed svobodnou volbou.<\/p>\n

Smrt, v\u00e1lka, ztr\u00e1ta, nemoc a bolest p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed s poselstv\u00edm, \u017ee je na \u010dase si p\u0159iznat, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eeme m\u00edt pod kontrolou zcela nic. \u017de nelze udr\u017eet nic v konstantn\u00ed jistot\u011b a klidn\u00e9m bezv\u011bt\u0159\u00ed a stejn\u011b tak je ztr\u00e1ta \u010dasu se toho, co p\u0159ijde, b\u00e1t a zd\u011b\u0161en\u011b to vyhl\u00ed\u017eet. Tato zku\u0161enost lidsk\u00e9ho byt\u00ed se mi hluboce vryla do srdce posledn\u00ed V\u00e1noce. Moje babi\u010dka uva\u0159ila slavnostn\u00ed ve\u010de\u0159i, je\u0161t\u011b zavolala m\u00e9mu synovi Adamovi k sv\u00e1tku a j\u00e1 si \u0159ekla, \u017ee j\u00ed volat ani nebudu, kdy\u017e za n\u00ed pojedeme hned z\u00edtra. Ale siln\u011b, a\u017e urputn\u011b jsem c\u00edtila, \u017ee j\u00ed zavolat m\u00e1m. V\u017edy\u0165 bude z\u00edtra\u2026 pro\u010d mus\u00edm dnes?<\/p>\n

Babi\u010dka za\u010dala m\u00fdt n\u00e1dob\u00ed a vtom ji p\u00edchlo u srdce a svezla se po kuchy\u0148sk\u00e9 lince dol\u016f na zem. Jej\u00ed syn, m\u016fj str\u00fdc, kter\u00fd tam s n\u00ed byl, okam\u017eit\u011b zavolal sanitku. Babi\u010dka cel\u00fd \u017eivot \u017eila na jednom m\u00edst\u011b, na mal\u00e9 vesnici, kde se \u0159e\u0161ilo, co si druh\u00fd pomysl\u00ed, a nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed bylo d\u011blat v\u0161echno slu\u0161n\u011b a spr\u00e1vn\u011b. Trvala na tom, \u017ee ji str\u00fdc mus\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b p\u0159evl\u00e9ct do hezk\u00e9ho oble\u010den\u00ed a u\u010desat, aby se p\u0159ed doktorem nemusela styd\u011bt. Trvala na tom tak urputn\u011b, \u017ee j\u00ed ut\u00edkal pro \u0161aty, m\u00edsto aby j\u00ed mas\u00edroval p\u0159i infarktu srdce. A v sekund\u011b, kdy sanitka zastavila p\u0159ed domem, babi\u010dka um\u0159ela. V \u010dase, kdy jsme se my ostatn\u00ed chystali sednout ke stolu a v\u00e1no\u010dn\u00ed strome\u010dek se rozz\u00e1\u0159il blikaj\u00edc\u00edmi sv\u011bt\u00fdlky. Z\u00edtra nebude a dnes u\u017e je pozd\u011b. A j\u00e1 to c\u00edtila\u2026<\/p>\n

Jako by n\u00e1s \u017eivot u\u010dil vn\u00edmat vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s nut\u00ed ud\u011blat n\u011bco, co se n\u00e1m nechce, co n\u00e1m p\u0159ijde zbyte\u010dn\u00fd, divn\u00fd, naprosto nelogick\u00fd. I touto taktikou n\u00e1s \u017eivot u\u010d\u00ed vn\u00edmat v\u0161emi smysly, pono\u0159it se hluboce do sebe a pustit v\u0161e, \u010deho se urputn\u011b s pocitem fale\u0161n\u00e9 jistoty dr\u017e\u00edme.<\/p>\n

V\u0161ichni, co se p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017eili smrti, ale dostali \u0161anci je\u0161t\u011b na zemi pokra\u010dovat, \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed stejnou v\u011btu: \u201eNajednou jsem vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fd, vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e1 za to, co m\u00e1m…\u201c<\/p>\n

A jsou to siln\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy. Nen\u00ed toti\u017e nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed inspirac\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, co m\u00e1 v\u0161e, z\u00e1\u0159\u00ed ve sv\u011btle \u00fasp\u011bchu, bohatstv\u00ed a dokonalosti, ale ten, kter\u00fd inspirovat netou\u017e\u00ed a nec\u00edt\u00ed se v t\u00e9to pozici komfortn\u011b. Proto\u017ee nem\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee n\u011bco z\u00e1sadn\u00edho dok\u00e1zal, v\u017edy\u0165 JENOM p\u0159e\u017eil.<\/p>\n

Minul\u00fd t\u00fdden jsem volala sv\u00e9 druh\u00e9 babi\u010dce. Je j\u00ed 94 let a u\u017e je tak unaven\u00e1, \u017ee nem\u00e1 s\u00edlu se v\u011bnovat tomu, co cel\u00fd \u017eivot milovala: pleten\u00ed svetr\u016f pro celou svoji rodinu, chodit na pole okop\u00e1vat brambory a zaj\u00edt za slepicemi domluvit jim, aby sn\u00e1\u0161ely vaj\u00ed\u010dka.<\/p>\n

Zeptala jsem se j\u00ed, jak se c\u00edt\u00ed, a ona \u0159ekla: \u201eNo, jak asi. Jako star\u00e1 b\u00e1ba, co u\u017e v m\u00e9m v\u011bku, jak se m\u016f\u017eu c\u00edtit? J\u00e1 u\u017e se tam nahoru t\u011b\u0161\u00edm. Sv\u016fj \u00fakol jsem splnila, v\u0161echny v\u00e1s vychovala, snad jsem na v\u00e1s byla hodn\u00e1 a budete na m\u011b v dobr\u00e9m vzpom\u00ednat\u2026 Smysl \u017eivota je m\u00edt pro koho \u017e\u00edt, Vlastinko.\u201c<\/p>\n

Je to m\u00e1lo opravdu tak m\u00e1lo? Radovat se z mali\u010dkost\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jsou v kontextu \u017eivota obrovsk\u00fdm \u0161t\u011bst\u00edm a smyslem \u017eivota. Upl\u00e9st svetr vnou\u010deti, uva\u0159it j\u00eddlo pro n\u011bkoho, kdo vyl\u00ed\u017ee tal\u00ed\u0159, obejmout n\u011bkoho, kdo se naoko zlob\u00ed, koupit si kytku sama pro sebe, vzbudit se na zp\u011bv pt\u00e1k\u016f dv\u011b hodiny p\u0159ed bud\u00edkem, zavolat star\u00e9 kamar\u00e1dce, se kterou l\u00e9ta nemluv\u00edte, ale stra\u0161n\u011b se v\u00e1m po n\u00ed st\u00fdsk\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Odbo\u010dit do uli\u010dky, kterou bychom nikdy nejeli, proto\u017ee nevede na\u0161\u00ed obvyklou trasou, a objevit tam t\u0159eba truhl\u00e1\u0159e, kter\u00e9ho pot\u0159ebujeme.<\/p>\n

Cesty, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s vedou p\u0159esn\u011b tam, kam se pot\u0159ebujeme dostat: do sv\u011bta \u00fa\u017easu, \u00fadivu, z\u00e1zrak\u016f z neoby\u010dejn\u00fdch oby\u010dejnost\u00ed. A t\u0159eba se na posledn\u00ed cestu budete cht\u00edt v klidu u\u010desat. A t\u0159eba nebude \u010das se rozlou\u010dit, proto\u017ee se a\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 spol\u00e9h\u00e1me na z\u00edt\u0159ek.<\/p>\n

A t\u0159eba sta\u010d\u00ed m\u00edt po\u0159\u00e1d smysl, pro co \u017e\u00edt. A m\u016f\u017ee to b\u00fdt klidn\u011b jen b\u00edl\u00fd svetr, kter\u00fd hrd\u011b obl\u00e9kne va\u0161e vnu\u010dka pravnou\u010deti.<\/p>\n

Sv\u011bt kolem n\u00e1s se nezm\u011bn\u00ed. Zm\u011bn\u00edme se my. Kdy\u017e zjist\u00edme, \u017ee \u017eijeme \u017eivot, za kter\u00fd jsme vd\u011b\u010dn\u00ed, i kdy\u017e p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed plno ztr\u00e1t, smutku a bolesti\u2026<\/p>\n

Vlastina Sv\u00e1tkov\u00e1<\/a><\/strong> je here\u010dka a spisovatelka p\u016fvodem ze Slovenska. Vystudovala pedagogiku a medi\u00e1ln\u00ed komunikaci. Poprv\u00e9 se objevila p\u0159ed kamerou v bondovce Casino Royale. Hr\u00e1la ve filmech Hodinu nev\u00ed\u0161, \u017deny v poku\u0161en\u00ed, Gangster Ka, M\u016fj p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh a dal\u0161\u00edch. Je ambasadorkou nadace Anabell pro lidi s poruchami p\u0159\u00edjm\u016f potravy. Vydala knihy Sama sebou<\/a><\/strong> a Prostor pro du\u0161i<\/a><\/strong>, kter\u00e9 se prodalo u\u017e 28 000 v\u00fdtisk\u016f. Jej\u00ed posledn\u00ed knihou o \u017eivot\u011b je Najde\u0161 m\u011b ve tm\u011b<\/a><\/strong>. Navrhuje \u0161perky, miluje design, nat\u00e1\u010d\u00ed a \u017eije za Prahou se sv\u00fdm partnerem a t\u0159emi syny.<\/p>\n

Tento \u010dl\u00e1nek vy\u0161el v magaz\u00ednu Luxor v \u010dervenci 2022.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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