{"id":17098,"date":"2022-07-12T14:43:34","date_gmt":"2022-07-12T12:43:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=17098"},"modified":"2023-02-01T14:07:57","modified_gmt":"2023-02-01T13:07:57","slug":"jorge-bucay-zaklad-stesti-je-ve-vas-a-nikdy-nemuze-prijit-zvenci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/rozhovor\/jorge-bucay-zaklad-stesti-je-ve-vas-a-nikdy-nemuze-prijit-zvenci\/","title":{"rendered":"Jorge Bucay: Z\u00e1klad \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed je ve v\u00e1s a nikdy nem\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ij\u00edt zven\u010d\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Argentinsk\u00fd gestalt psychoterapeut. Ve sv\u00e9 rodn\u00e9 zemi je pova\u017eov\u00e1n za jednoho z nejlep\u0161\u00edch psychoterapeut\u016f sou\u010dasnosti. Jorge je tak\u00e9 zn\u00e1m\u00fd spisovatel. Jeho knihy byly p\u0159elo\u017eeny do v\u00edce ne\u017e sedmn\u00e1cti jazyk\u016f. V sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b vych\u00e1z\u00ed v \u010cesk\u00e9 republice jeden z jeho nej\u00fasp\u011b\u0161n\u011bj\u0161\u00edch titul\u016f Budu ti vypr\u00e1v\u011bt<\/a>. P\u0159i t\u00e9to p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti jsme Jorgemu Bucayovi<\/a> polo\u017eili n\u011bkolik ot\u00e1zek.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jste zn\u00e1m\u00fd jako l\u00e9ka\u0159 \u2013 psychiatr \u2013 a pom\u00e1h\u00e1te lidem \u0159e\u0161it jejich pot\u00ed\u017ee tak\u00e9 metodou vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f. Kdy jste si v\u0161iml jejich terapeutick\u00e9 s\u00edly? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Moji prarodi\u010de znali p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 pro ka\u017edou bolestnou situaci. Ale to, \u017ee vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed a \u010dten\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f m\u00e1 takov\u00fd \u00fa\u010dinek, p\u0159ekvapilo i m\u011b. Jednou jsem vedl kurz psychologie v m\u011bstsk\u00e9 knihovn\u011b v Buenos Aires a skon\u010dilo to vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00edm p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f m\u00fdch prarodi\u010d\u016f. A tehdy jsem si pln\u011b uv\u011bdomil, jak moc se mnoha poslucha\u010d\u016f dotkly.<\/p>\n

Na\u0161e \u017eivotn\u00ed t\u011b\u017ekosti a tr\u00e1pen\u00ed jsou \u010dasto zp\u016fsobeny t\u00edm, \u017ee jsme otroky sv\u00fdch ka\u017edodenn\u00edch povinnost\u00ed. Chod\u00edme do pr\u00e1ce, star\u00e1me se o dom\u00e1cnost, v\u017edycky se objev\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00e9 nep\u0159edv\u00eddan\u00e9 \u00fakoly… <\/strong><\/p>\n

Otrok je \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd nem\u00e1 mo\u017enost svobodn\u011b se rozhodnout, zda n\u011bco ud\u011bl\u00e1, nebo ne. Nikdo z n\u00e1s nen\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00fdm otrokem sv\u00e9ho ka\u017edodenn\u00edho \u017eivota. I kdy\u017e mnoz\u00ed \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee je nemo\u017en\u00e9 se z tohoto bludn\u00e9ho kruhu dostat, j\u00e1 tvrd\u00edm, \u017ee to dok\u00e1\u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd. Ka\u017ed\u00fd se m\u016f\u017ee svobodn\u011b rozhodnout. M\u016f\u017eete nechat za sebou v\u0161e, co opravdu nechcete.<\/p>\n

\"\"\u010casto se neodva\u017eujeme p\u0159iznat, \u017ee jsme nap\u0159\u00edklad v pr\u00e1ci ne\u0161\u0165astn\u00ed nebo \u017ee na\u0161e l\u00e1ska k partnerovi u\u017e d\u00e1vno vyprchala. Pro\u010d to p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1me? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Nechat n\u011bco\/n\u011bkoho odej\u00edt je obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fd a bolestn\u00fd proces. Napad\u00e1 m\u011b n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh: Jeden bohat\u00fd mu\u017e p\u0159i\u0161el za moudr\u00fdm rab\u00ednem a cht\u011bl mu polo\u017eit d\u016fle\u017eitou ot\u00e1zku t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00ed se jeho v\u00edry. St\u00e1l p\u0159ed rab\u00ednov\u00fdm domem, kter\u00fd byl neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u011b p\u0159epychov\u00fd a bohat\u00fd, a ve\u0161el dovnit\u0159. Uvnit\u0159 v\u0161ak ke sv\u00e9mu p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed zjistil, \u017ee rab\u00edn m\u00e1 jen st\u016fl a \u017eidli, na podlaze matraci a na zdi h\u0159eb\u00edk, na kter\u00fd si pov\u011bsil oble\u010den\u00ed. Udiven\u00fd boh\u00e1\u010d se zeptal: \u201eKde m\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1bytek? Kde m\u00e1\u0161 v\u0161echny v\u011bci?\u201c Rab\u00edn se na n\u011bj pod\u00edval a zeptal se na opl\u00e1tku: \u201eA kde m\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1bytek a v\u011bci ty?\u201c Bohat\u00fd mu\u017e mu odpov\u011bd\u011bl: \u201eJsem tu jen na chv\u00edli,\u201c na co\u017e rab\u00edn odpov\u011bd\u011bl: \u201eJ\u00e1 tak\u00e9.\u201c Kdy\u017e pochop\u00edme, \u017ee t\u00edmto pozemsk\u00fdm sv\u011btem jen proch\u00e1z\u00edme, p\u0159estaneme v\u011bci hromadit a nebudeme se ob\u00e1vat, \u017ee je ztrat\u00edme, a m\u016f\u017eeme b\u00fdt svobodn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Sv\u00e9 \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed \u010dasto hled\u00e1me v materi\u00e1ln\u00edch v\u011bcech. Co to o n\u00e1s vypov\u00edd\u00e1? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Cel\u00e1 desetilet\u00ed jsme v\u011b\u0159ili velk\u00e9 l\u017ei, \u017ee abychom v \u017eivot\u011b n\u011bk\u00fdm byli, mus\u00edme m\u00edt takov\u00e9 a takov\u00e9 v\u011bci. Tak n\u00e1s to u\u010dili a tak to nyn\u00ed u\u010d\u00edme na\u0161e d\u011bti. Ale je to le\u017e! Z\u00e1klad \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed je ve v\u00e1s a nikdy nem\u016f\u017ee p\u0159ij\u00edt zven\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Tento \u010dl\u00e1nek vy\u0161el v magaz\u00ednu Luxor v \u010dervenci 2022.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Argentinsk\u00fd gestalt psychoterapeut. Ve sv\u00e9 rodn\u00e9 zemi je pova\u017eov\u00e1n za jednoho z nejlep\u0161\u00edch psychoterapeut\u016f sou\u010dasnosti. Jorge je tak\u00e9 zn\u00e1m\u00fd spisovatel. Jeho knihy byly p\u0159elo\u017eeny do v\u00edce ne\u017e sedmn\u00e1cti jazyk\u016f. V […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":17100,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_EventAllDay":false,"_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":false,"_EventShowMapLink":false,"_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":[],"_EventVenueID":[],"_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":false,"_VenueShowMapLink":false,"twitterCardType":"","cardImageID":0,"cardImage":"","cardTitle":"","cardDesc":"","cardImageAlt":"","cardPlayer":"","cardPlayerWidth":0,"cardPlayerHeight":0,"cardPlayerStream":"","cardPlayerCodec":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[8,21655],"tags":[20814,18344,21206],"class_list":["post-17098","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-rozhovor","category-magazin-luxor","tag-psychologie","tag-rozhovor","tag-svetova-literatura"],"acf":{"related_products":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17098","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17098"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17098\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17100"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}