{"id":15942,"date":"2021-08-12T14:33:49","date_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:33:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=15942"},"modified":"2021-08-02T14:43:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-02T12:43:01","slug":"rodina-jako-tym-take-rodiny-potrebuji-tymove-hrace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/ukazky\/rodina-jako-tym-take-rodiny-potrebuji-tymove-hrace\/","title":{"rendered":"Rodina jako t\u00fdm: Tak\u00e9 rodiny pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed t\u00fdmov\u00e9 hr\u00e1\u010de"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Tak\u00e9 rodiny pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed k \u00fasp\u011bchu spokojen\u00e9 t\u00fdmov\u00e9 hr\u00e1\u010de, smysluplnou misi a inspiraci! Uzn\u00e1van\u00ed lekto\u0159i Jan M\u00fchlfeit a Kate\u0159ina Kr\u016ftov\u00e1 p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed ucelen\u00fd pohled na nov\u00e9 zp\u016fsoby vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, sebepozn\u00e1n\u00ed, pr\u00e1ci s emocemi, komunikaci nap\u0159\u00ed\u010d generacemi a dal\u0161\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 aspekty. Vytvo\u0159te funguj\u00edc\u00ed rodinu, ve kter\u00e9 je ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlen d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd a z n\u00ed\u017e mohou d\u011bti z\u00edskat z\u00e1klad pro cel\u00fd \u017eivot. Ochutnejte z p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e9 knihy <a href=\"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/product\/rodina-jako-tym-zbo000410170\">Rodina jako t\u00fdm<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>VZTAHY<\/strong><br \/>\nMezilidsk\u00e9 vztahy jsou ned\u00edlnou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed cel\u00e9ho na\u0161eho \u017eivota a kvalita vztah\u016f, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1me, ovliv\u0148uje i n\u00e1\u0161 pocit \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed. D\u011bti se od sv\u00fdch nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch i od sebe navz\u00e1jem p\u0159irozen\u011b u\u010d\u00ed, tak\u017ee je v r\u00e1mci socializace d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby za\u010daly navazovat vztahy v co nejran\u011bj\u0161\u00ed f\u00e1zi. Krom\u011b vztahu d\u00edt\u011b\u2013rodi\u010d pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed d\u011bti budovat i dal\u0161\u00ed vztahy: d\u00edt\u011b\u2013prarodi\u010d, d\u00edt\u011b\u2013sourozenec, d\u00edt\u011b\u2013kamar\u00e1di, d\u00edt\u011b\u2013u\u010ditel(ka) a dal\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Prakticky od narozen\u00ed si d\u00edt\u011b vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed ur\u010dit\u00e9 n\u00e1vyky, jak se chovat ve vztahu s n\u011bk\u00fdm jin\u00fdm, kter\u00e9 si pozd\u011bji p\u0159en\u00e1\u0161\u00ed od rodiny i do dal\u0161\u00edch vztah\u016f, t\u0159eba s d\u011btmi na h\u0159i\u0161ti, ve \u0161kolce. Kdy\u017e nastoup\u00ed do \u0161kolky, vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed si dal\u0161\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vazby a stejn\u011b tak pozd\u011bji ve \u0161kole.<\/p>\n<p>\u0160kola by pak m\u011bla nav\u00e1zat na jeho p\u0159edchoz\u00ed zku\u0161enosti s budov\u00e1n\u00edm vztah\u016f v\u00fdukou sebepozn\u00e1n\u00ed, kde by se mlad\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk dozv\u011bd\u011bl z\u00e1klady emo\u010dn\u00ed inteligence a n\u011bco o tom, jak p\u0159edch\u00e1zet konflikt\u016fm, jak komunikovat s lidmi, jak reagovat na neshody, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b vyhrocen\u00e9 agresivn\u00ed situace. Kdyby se v t\u011bchto oblastech pracovalo s d\u011btmi aktivn\u011b u\u017e ve \u0161koln\u00edm v\u011bku, dalo by se p\u0159edej\u00edt spoust\u011b pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edch probl\u00e9m\u016f.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Harvardsk\u00e1 studie \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed<\/strong><br \/>\nNa z\u00e1klad\u011b jedn\u00e9 z nejd\u00e9le prob\u00edhaj\u00edc\u00edch studi\u00ed t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00edch se \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed, kterou prov\u00e1d\u011bla Harvardova univerzita, je patrn\u00e9, \u017ee pr\u00e1v\u011b vztahy jsou jedn\u00edm ze z\u00e1kladn\u00edch determinant\u016f na\u0161eho spokojen\u00e9ho \u017eivota.<br \/>\nStudie si dala za \u00fakol sledovat p\u0159es 700 mu\u017e\u016f z r\u016fzn\u00fdch soci\u00e1ln\u00edch vrstev nap\u0159\u00ed\u010d generacemi po dobu 75 let. Zam\u011b\u0159ili se na jejich psychickou i fyzickou \u017eivotn\u00ed pohodu. Mezi \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edky studie byli absolventi Harvardu, ale tak\u00e9 mu\u017ei z velmi chud\u00fdch pom\u011br\u016f z Bostonu, kte\u0159\u00ed vyr\u016fstali mezi lety 1939\u20132014. V\u00fdzkum obn\u00e1\u0161el krom\u011b \u0159ady rozhovor\u016f nebo dotazn\u00edk\u016f i skenov\u00e1n\u00ed mozku \u010di anal\u00fdzu vzork\u016f krve.<br \/>\nStudie potvrdila, \u017ee nej\u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a nejzdrav\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edci z obou zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fdch skupin byli ti, kte\u0159\u00ed udr\u017eovali b\u011bhem sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota bl\u00edzk\u00e9 a d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e9 vztahy. Kdy\u017e m\u00e1me toti\u017e n\u011bkoho, na koho se m\u016f\u017eeme spolehnout a je n\u00e1m v\u017edy nabl\u00edzku, n\u00e1\u0161 nervov\u00fd syst\u00e9m dok\u00e1\u017ee l\u00e9pe odpo\u010d\u00edvat a to vede po psychick\u00e9 i fyzick\u00e9 str\u00e1nce k lep\u0161\u00ed kondici.[2]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vztah mezi rodi\u010dem a d\u011btmi<\/strong><br \/>\nD\u00edt\u011b si jako prvn\u00ed za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 budovat vztah se sv\u00fdmi rodi\u010di, vztah s m\u00e1mou a vztah s t\u00e1tou. Tyto prim\u00e1rn\u00ed vztahov\u00e9 vazby jsou pro n\u011b velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9. Prom\u00edtaj\u00ed se do cel\u00e9ho budouc\u00edho \u017eivota a \u010dasto maj\u00ed z\u00e1sadn\u00ed vliv na to, jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem si \u010dlov\u011bk vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed a buduje vztahy s ostatn\u00edmi lidmi \u2013 s budouc\u00edm partnerem, s p\u0159\u00e1teli, kolegy i s vlastn\u00edmi potomky.<br \/>\nVztah d\u00edt\u011bte s rodi\u010dem mohou n\u011bkdy nabour\u00e1vat rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9 strachy a pochybnosti, kter\u00e9 se z rodi\u010d\u016f p\u0159en\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed na d\u011bti.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Strachy rodi\u010d\u016f<\/strong><br \/>\nV\u011bt\u0161ina racion\u00e1ln\u011b sm\u00fd\u0161lej\u00edc\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f se sna\u017e\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u011bti po cel\u00fd \u017eivot chr\u00e1nit. Nejsiln\u011bji se tento instinkt projevuje, kdy\u017e jsou d\u011bti mal\u00e9, snadno zraniteln\u00e9 a nemaj\u00ed je\u0161t\u011b vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti. Rodi\u010de je upozor\u0148uj\u00ed na nebezpe\u010d\u00ed, aby n\u011bkam nespadly nebo nesahaly na horkou plotnu, \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed jim, co si obl\u00e9ct, aby nenastydly, s k\u00fdm se rad\u011bji nemaj\u00ed kamar\u00e1dit apod. V\u011bt\u0161ina t\u011bchto dob\u0159e m\u00edn\u011bn\u00fdch rad je samoz\u0159ejm\u011b pro d\u011bti d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1, pochopiteln\u011b rodi\u010de pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed dohl\u00e9dnout na jejich zdrav\u00ed a bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Ale vzpome\u0148te si na sebe, kdy\u017e jste byli je\u0161t\u011b d\u011bti \u2013 jak moc v\u00e1s \u0161tvalo, \u017ee maminka opakuje jako kolovr\u00e1tek, abyste nelezli na plot a \u017ee si m\u00e1te mikinu uv\u00e1zat aspo\u0148 kolem pasu, kdy\u017e u\u017e si ji nechcete obl\u00e9ct na sebe. Cel\u00e1 \u0159ada pokyn\u016f se opakovala st\u00e1le dokola, ale pro va\u0161i zku\u0161enost bylo stejn\u011b nejcenn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e jste si mohli situace, o nich\u017e rodi\u010de mluvili, zakusit na vlastn\u00ed k\u016f\u017ei a potvrdit si, jestli m\u00e1ma s t\u00e1tou maj\u00ed pravdu. Mo\u017en\u00e1 jste p\u00e1rkr\u00e1t spadli z plotu, nejsp\u00ed\u0161 jste se nachladili pot\u00e9, co jste zpocen\u00ed l\u00edtali venku bez mikiny, a prom\u00e1\u010deli si boty, proto\u017ee jste se pohybovali p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 bl\u00edzko potoka.<\/p>\n<p>D\u011bti se pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed nau\u010dit samostatnosti a rozhodovat samy za sebe. Bohu\u017eel hodn\u011b rodi\u010d\u016f m\u00e1 tendenci za d\u011bti rozhodovat je\u0161t\u011b v pubert\u011b nebo i pozd\u011bji a n\u011bkter\u00fdm d\u011btem to klidn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee vyhovovat, je to pro n\u011b pohodln\u00e9. Pokud ov\u0161em rodi\u010de cht\u011bj\u00ed, aby se jejich d\u011bti vydaly za sv\u00fdmi sny a n\u011b\u010deho dos\u00e1hly, musej\u00ed je nau\u010dit vystupovat ze z\u00f3ny komfortu, jin\u00fdmi slovy vychov\u00e1vat je k ment\u00e1ln\u00ed odolnosti. A t\u00edm, \u017ee je neust\u00e1le chr\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed jakoukoli mo\u017enost\u00ed chyby, prohry nebo zklam\u00e1n\u00ed, jim to v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku moc neuleh\u010duj\u00ed, sp\u00ed\u0161 naopak.<\/p>\n<p><em>U n\u00e1s v \u010cesk\u00e9 republice nen\u00ed situace tak drastick\u00e1, ale v zem\u00edch jako It\u00e1lie jsou b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 tzv. mamahotely, kdy d\u011bti \u017eij\u00ed s rodi\u010di do sv\u00fdch 40 let, nebo dokonce i d\u00e9le. D\u016fvodem nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt jen pohodlnost d\u011bt\u00ed, ale t\u0159eba i p\u0159ehnan\u011b vysok\u00e9 hypot\u00e9ky spolu s velkou m\u00edrou nezam\u011bstnanosti. Na jednu stranu je fajn, kdy\u017e rodina \u017eije pohromad\u011b, na druhou stranu d\u00edky tomu nedoch\u00e1z\u00ed k pot\u0159ebn\u00e9mu odpojen\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed od rodi\u010d\u016f. D\u011bti nemohou vylet\u011bt z hn\u00edzda, co\u017e jim m\u016f\u017ee v cel\u00e9m dal\u0161\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b dost chyb\u011bt. Funk\u010dn\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e1 mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed dom\u00e1cnost je mo\u017en\u00e1 pouze v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, \u017ee rodi\u010de vedou d\u011bti k samostatnosti a dok\u00e1\u017eou respektovat jejich \u017eivoty. Nevm\u011b\u0161uj\u00ed se jim neust\u00e1le do osobn\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed, do rozhodov\u00e1n\u00ed, do v\u00fdchovy potomk\u016f apod. V \u010desk\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed b\u00fdvalo mezigenera\u010dn\u00ed sou\u017eit\u00ed n\u011bkolika rodin b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 sp\u00ed\u0161 d\u0159\u00edve, dnes d\u011bti p\u0159irozen\u011b odch\u00e1zej\u00ed na vysok\u00e9 \u0161koly a t\u00edmto okam\u017eikem opou\u0161t\u011bj\u00ed rodn\u00e9 hn\u00edzdo.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>***<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rodinn\u00e1 hierarchie a role v rodin\u011b<br \/>\n<\/strong>Narozen\u00edm d\u00edt\u011bte (nov\u00e9 generace) se m\u011bn\u00ed hierarchie cel\u00e9 rodiny a role jednotliv\u00fdch \u010dlen\u016f. Do narozen\u00ed vlastn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed maj\u00ed lid\u00e9 z\u00e1kladn\u00ed kotvu u sv\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f. K nim se vracej\u00ed (na sv\u00e1tky, oslavy, n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy), od nich se cel\u00fd \u017eivot u\u010d\u00ed, z\u00edsk\u00e1vaj\u00ed zku\u0161enosti atd. Pot\u00e9 co se mlad\u0161\u00ed generaci narod\u00ed miminko (z\u00e1stupce nov\u00e9 generace), funkci kotvy a zodpov\u011bdnost za rodinu by m\u011bla p\u0159ebrat pr\u00e1v\u011b mlad\u0161\u00ed generace (rodi\u010de miminka). A to jak zodpov\u011bdnost za sv\u00e9 mal\u00e9 d\u011bti, tak i za sv\u00e9 rodi\u010de, z nich\u017e se st\u00e1vaj\u00ed prarodi\u010de a dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed se v celkov\u00e9 hierarchii o stup\u00ednek n\u00ed\u017e. Po p\u0159eskl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 hierarchie je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby se \u010dlenov\u00e9 rodiny um\u011bli rozlou\u010dit se sv\u00fdmi p\u0159edchoz\u00edmi rolemi, pochopili, co obn\u00e1\u0161ej\u00ed jejich nov\u00e9 role, a p\u0159ijali je. D\u011bti jako rodi\u010de, rodi\u010de jako prarodi\u010de. T\u00edm umo\u017en\u00ed, aby se do pozice rodinn\u00e9 kotvy dostala mlad\u0161\u00ed generace, a podpo\u0159\u00ed v\u00fdvoj rodiny do budoucna.<br \/>\nNen\u00ed jedin\u00e1 pravda ta, kterou zast\u00e1v\u00e1 jedna generace po cel\u00fd sv\u016fj \u017eivot. Nyn\u00ed p\u0159ech\u00e1z\u00ed generace rodi\u010d\u016f do rol\u00ed prarodi\u010d\u016f, a pokud jejich d\u011bti maj\u00ed jin\u00e9 v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 metody, ne\u017e m\u011bli oni, nen\u00ed dobr\u00e9, kdy\u017e je kv\u016fli tomu prarodi\u010de odsuzuj\u00ed, sna\u017e\u00ed se pou\u010dovat a vyvol\u00e1vat konflikty na toto t\u00e9ma, shazovat p\u0159ed d\u011btmi autoritu rodi\u010d\u016f apod.<br \/>\nBojujete-li p\u0159esn\u011b s t\u00edmto probl\u00e9mem ve va\u0161\u00ed rodin\u011b, mo\u017en\u00e1 je d\u016fvodem to, \u017ee va\u0161i rodi\u010de necht\u011bj\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edmat doporu\u010den\u00ed a rady p\u0159\u00edmo od v\u00e1s \u2013 od sv\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed. Stejn\u011b jako jste vy v obdob\u00ed puberty necht\u011bli sly\u0161et \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 rady od nich. Zkuste pozvat rodi\u010de na n\u011bjak\u00fd semin\u00e1\u0159, workshop nebo p\u0159edn\u00e1\u0161ku, kter\u00e9 se v\u011bnuj\u00ed v\u00fdchov\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed, komunikaci apod. Nebo jim pro za\u010d\u00e1tek m\u016f\u017eete po\u0159\u00eddit kn\u00ed\u017eku, audioknihu \u010di poslat tip na podcast, kde usly\u0161\u00ed informace p\u0159\u00edmo od odborn\u00edk\u016f. Pokuste se ale vyhnout nastaven\u00ed, \u201e\u017ee pot\u0159ebujete sv\u00e9 zabedn\u011bn\u00e9 (pra)rodi\u010de kone\u010dn\u011b trochu vzd\u011blat, a tak je pos\u00edl\u00e1te na t\u00fddenn\u00ed intenzivn\u00ed kurz rodi\u010dovstv\u00ed\u201c. Jd\u011bte na to pomalu, s citem a vidinou toho, \u017ee to pro v\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u011bkn\u011b str\u00e1ven\u00fd spole\u010dn\u00fd \u010das. Podobn\u00e1 zku\u0161enost v\u00e1m p\u0159inese nov\u00e1 t\u00e9mata k rozhovor\u016fm a spoustu informac\u00ed t\u00fdkaj\u00edc\u00edch se v\u00fdchovy, na kter\u00fdch budete moci spole\u010dn\u011b stav\u011bt. Nebo s nimi t\u0159eba i spole\u010dn\u011b nesouhlasit a hledat dal\u0161\u00ed, vyhovuj\u00edc\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstupy a mo\u017enosti.<br \/>\nNa na\u0161e semin\u00e1\u0159e nechod\u00ed pouze rodi\u010de, ale velmi \u010dasto i prarodi\u010de, budouc\u00ed maminky, u\u010ditel\u00e9 nebo tren\u00e9\u0159i, kte\u0159\u00ed se cht\u011bj\u00ed o mo\u017enostech rozvoje d\u011bt\u00ed dozv\u011bd\u011bt v\u00edce. Na jednom kurzu jsme m\u011bli dokonce dv\u011b tchyn\u011b, kter\u00e9 dostaly semin\u00e1\u0159 jako d\u00e1rek a b\u00e1je\u010dn\u011b si to spolu u\u017eily.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tak\u00e9 rodiny pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed k \u00fasp\u011bchu spokojen\u00e9 t\u00fdmov\u00e9 hr\u00e1\u010de, smysluplnou misi a inspiraci! 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