{"id":14681,"date":"2020-12-02T10:40:27","date_gmt":"2020-12-02T09:40:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/?p=14681"},"modified":"2020-12-02T10:40:27","modified_gmt":"2020-12-02T09:40:27","slug":"otevrete-se-nove-lasce","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.luxor.cz\/blog\/ukazky\/otevrete-se-nove-lasce\/","title":{"rendered":"Otev\u0159ete se nov\u00e9 l\u00e1sce"},"content":{"rendered":"

Otev\u0159i se l\u00e1sce<\/a> je moudr\u00fd a citliv\u00fd pr\u016fvodce pro v\u0161echny, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou u\u017e unaven\u00ed a frustrovan\u00ed z hled\u00e1n\u00ed toho prav\u00e9ho partnera a jsou ochotni objevit zp\u016fsob, jak si ho k sob\u011b p\u0159ivolat. Najdete zde propracovan\u00fd sedmit\u00fddenn\u00ed program, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s povede krok za krokem k tomu, abyste identifikovali a odstranili p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eky, uvolnili toxick\u00e9 vazby a otev\u0159eli se v\u011bdom\u00e9mu vztahu a l\u00e1sce. Autorka sd\u00edl\u00ed velmi otev\u0159en\u011b svoji osobn\u00ed zku\u0161enost, kterou prol\u00edn\u00e1 s inspirativn\u00edmi p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy sv\u00fdch klient\u016f, a nyn\u00ed m\u016f\u017eete z knihy ochutnat.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ob\u010das m\u011b p\u0159epad\u00e1 skl\u00ed\u010denost, kdy\u017e mi \u017eeny vykl\u00e1daj\u00ed, \u017ee mu\u017ee nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. Jako kdyby \u201epot\u0159ebovat mu\u017ee\u201c bylo n\u011bco jako \u201epot\u0159ebovat invalidn\u00ed voz\u00edk\u201c. Pokud si k\u00a0sob\u011b n\u011bkoho pust\u00edm, budu se na n\u011bj tak\u00e9 muset spolehnout. P\u0159esn\u011b tak by to m\u011blo b\u00fdt. Od lid\u00ed kolem sebe toho pot\u0159ebuji mnoho, a douf\u00e1m, \u017ee mi natolik d\u016fv\u011b\u0159uj\u00ed, aby si dovolili ode mne tak\u00e9 n\u011bco pot\u0159ebovat.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00e1pu, \u017ee si s\u00a0sebou z\u00a0minulosti neseme nevyl\u00e9\u010den\u00e9 r\u00e1ny, kter\u00e9 se v\u00a0sou\u010dasnosti projevuj\u00ed jako pot\u0159ebnost. M\u00e1me pocit, \u017ee sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby mus\u00edme skr\u00fdvat, boj\u00edme se, \u017ee jimi vystra\u0161\u00edme ka\u017ed\u00e9ho, kdo se k\u00a0n\u00e1m p\u0159ibl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed. Na jednu stran\u011b nechceme p\u016fsobit jako \u201ep\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00ed\u201c, ale na druhou se pr\u00e1v\u011b t\u00edm od sv\u00fdch pot\u0159eb odpojujeme. K\u00a0pot\u0159eb\u00e1m, kter\u00e9 vn\u00edm\u00e1me jako p\u0159ehnan\u00e9, p\u0159id\u00e1me i ty legitimn\u00ed, a nakonec je stejn\u011b v\u0161echny spolyk\u00e1me. T\u00edm ov\u0161em n\u00e1\u0161 hlad paradoxn\u011b roste, proto\u017ee nem\u00edt ve vztahu k\u00a0druh\u00fdm \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 pot\u0159eby nen\u00ed p\u0159irozen\u00e9. Sna\u017e\u00edme-li se p\u0159edst\u00edrat, \u017ee \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 pot\u0159eby neexistuj\u00ed, anebo je pokl\u00e1d\u00e1me za patologick\u00e9, tento hlad se n\u00e1m \u010d\u00edm d\u00e1l t\u00edm v\u00edc za\u017e\u00edr\u00e1 do srdce.<\/p>\n

Lid\u00e9 nejsou stvo\u0159eni pro \u017eivot v\u00a0izolaci. Narodili jsme se, abychom p\u011bstovali vztahy. Bez propojen\u00ed s\u00a0ostatn\u00edmi toho v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b moc nedos\u00e1hneme. Tak\u017ee se rad\u011bji p\u0159esta\u0148te pokou\u0161et zbavit pot\u0159eby l\u00e1sky, laskavosti, \u00facty a bl\u00edzkosti a nam\u00edsto toho ji za\u010dn\u011bte br\u00e1t v\u00e1\u017en\u011b. P\u011bstujte vztahy s\u00a0lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou schopn\u00ed a ochotn\u00ed laskav\u011b reagovat, kdy\u017e je o n\u011bco po\u017e\u00e1d\u00e1te, m\u00edsto toho, abyste z\u016fst\u00e1vali s\u00a0lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed to ned\u011blaj\u00ed, a vy st\u00e1le doufali, \u017ee se zm\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Mu\u017esk\u00e9 a \u017eensk\u00e9 pot\u0159eby jsou obecn\u011b rozd\u00edln\u00e9. \u017dena pot\u0159ebuje m\u00edt pocit, \u017ee je ve vztahu vysly\u0161en\u00e1 a ope\u010dovan\u00e1. Tou\u017e\u00ed po tom, aby si j\u00ed mu\u017e v\u0161\u00edmal, cht\u011bl ji a zbo\u017e\u0148oval. Pot\u0159ebuje c\u00edtit, \u017ee si ji jej\u00ed mu\u017e v\u00e1\u017e\u00ed, a pot\u0159ebuje partnera, kter\u00e9mu z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na jej\u00edch pocitech. Pot\u0159ebuje \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd dok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159edv\u00eddat jej\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed a pln\u00ed je, ani\u017e by ho o to musela \u017e\u00e1dat. Pot\u0159ebuje mu\u017ee, kter\u00fd dr\u017e\u00ed slovo. Pot\u0159ebuje, aby s\u00a0n\u00edm mohla v\u017edycky po\u010d\u00edtat a aby se s\u00a0n\u00edm c\u00edtila v\u00a0bezpe\u010d\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Mu\u017ei se na druhou stranu pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed c\u00edtit pot\u0159ebn\u00ed. Jestli\u017ee mu partnerka d\u00e1v\u00e1 najevo uzn\u00e1n\u00ed a ocen\u011bn\u00ed za jeho \u00fasp\u011bchy, bude se mu da\u0159it. A\u017e p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 \u010dasto se st\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee \u017eena oce\u0148uje velk\u00e9 \u00fasp\u011bchy, ale nev\u0161\u00edm\u00e1 si mali\u010dkost\u00ed, kter\u00e9 partner ka\u017ed\u00fd den d\u011bl\u00e1, aby ji pot\u011b\u0161il. Mu\u017e pot\u0159ebuje uzn\u00e1n\u00ed i za mali\u010dkosti. Pot\u0159ebuje b\u00fdt p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1n takov\u00fd, jak\u00fd je. Pakli\u017ee mu\u017e c\u00edt\u00ed obdiv, l\u00e1sku a respekt, bude vzkv\u00e9tat. Miluj\u00edc\u00ed partnerka, kter\u00e1 mu\u017ei dod\u00e1v\u00e1 odvahu a inspiraci, v\u00a0n\u011bm probud\u00ed to nejlep\u0161\u00ed, co v\u00a0n\u011bm je.<\/p>\n

Vlastn\u00ed pot\u0159eby je velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 zkoumat a pochopit, abychom se dok\u00e1zali spr\u00e1vn\u011b rozhodnout, komu otev\u0159\u00edt (\u010di neotev\u0159\u00edt) srdce. Z\u00e1rove\u0148 je t\u0159eba nesoudit a neobvi\u0148ovat sami sebe za to, \u017ee tyto pot\u0159eby m\u00e1me. Dokud nep\u0159evezmete plnou odpov\u011bdnost za to, co ve vztahu chcete a pot\u0159ebujete, promrh\u00e1te spoustu \u010dasu s\u00a0lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed bu\u010f to, co chcete, nemaj\u00ed, anebo v\u00e1m to z\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu nejsou ochotni d\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

CVI\u010cEN\u00cd
\nDo den\u00edku si napi\u0161te seznam p\u011bti (a v\u00edce) v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 pot\u0159ebujete, abyste byli ve vztahu \u0161\u0165astn\u00ed. Dovolte si b\u00fdt autenti\u010dt\u00ed. V\u00e1\u0161 seznam by mohl zahrnovat v\u011bci jako:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pot\u0159ebuji se c\u00edtit docen\u011bn\u00fd\/\u00e1 a respektovan\u00fd\/\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Pot\u0159ebuji sly\u0161et, \u017ee jsem kr\u00e1sn\u00fd\/\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Pot\u0159ebuji b\u00fdt inspirov\u00e1n\/a.<\/p>\n

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Nyn\u00ed zav\u0159ete o\u010di a ka\u017ed\u00e9 prohl\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed ze sv\u00e9ho seznamu si jedno po druh\u00e9m \u0159ekn\u011bte nahlas nebo potichu t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem. Nap\u0159\u00edklad:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pot\u0159ebuji se c\u00edtit docen\u011bn\u00fd\/\u00e1 a respektovan\u00fd\/\u00e1\u2026\u2026 Cen\u00edm si s\u00e1m\/sama sebe a respektuji se.<\/p>\n

Pot\u0159ebuji sly\u0161et, \u017ee jsem kr\u00e1sn\u00fd\/\u00e1\u2026\u2026 Oce\u0148uji svoji kr\u00e1su.<\/p>\n

Pot\u0159ebuji b\u00fdt inspirov\u00e1n\/a\u2026\u2026 St\u00e1le inspiruji s\u00e1m\/sama sebe.<\/p>\n

Ka\u017edou tuto afirmaci minim\u00e1ln\u011b desetkr\u00e1t napi\u0161te. P\u0159i psan\u00ed ve sv\u00e9m srdci proci\u0165te, \u017ee tomu tak je.<\/p>\n

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